Pregnancy and sex...
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| Wed, 04-13-2005 - 9:33pm |
1. I am pregnant. My SO and I have been having sex a lot lately. We do not live together, though, and every time or almost every time I go to see him, he is ready for sex or head. Before I was pregnant, we didn't have sex that much. Why is this? What's new? What's the difference?
2. My SO said that after I have given labor, he wants me to get a "love-stitch." What is this exactly? He said that after the baby, my vagina will be like "whoa" and that I will need to have it stiched up, to tighten it, I guess.
3. Do men find pregnant women to be attractive? I am 3 months and I am beginning to feel unsexy... unattractive... FAT. I don't see anything sexy about a belly sticking out. I want to be able to wear sexy clothes, too.
PLEASE ANSWER MY 3 QUESTIONS!!!

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Hightek, your SO has had many complaints about your body from way back when.
Perhaps after delivering a baby she was less alarmed about trying to fit a penis inside her.
I used to have "vaginismus" which is a subconcious contraction of the PC muscles. There are many women who find it hard to totally relax (even when they are enjoying themselves completely) so the vaginal canal seems 'tight'. After passing a baby through there, maybe a penis just doesn't seem so frightening. ;)
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Forget the "love stitch" thing. My sister had that, although not intentionally. (There was a small tear after delivery and the ob/gyn stitched it up.)
Intercourse has been painful for her ever since and so my bro in law doesn't "get it" as often as he used to.
I have urged her to get it "fixed" but she is afraid of surger and doctors now.
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