pregnant & not gettin any!!!

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Registered: 06-21-2005
pregnant & not gettin any!!!
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Fri, 06-24-2005 - 9:06pm
i need someones help, im almost 6 months pregnant now and i havnt had sex in nearly 6 weeks,not my choice! dh works alot so he is tired alot of the time but ever since iv really started to show he just doesnt seem intrested in me, he tells me im georgous and sexy but never does anything! and i mean ANYTHING!!!!!! anyone know what i can do
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 06-24-2005 - 9:14pm
Talk to him and tell him what you want.

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Fri, 06-24-2005 - 9:23pm
When you're tired, you're tired. Its hard to focus on anything when your body is begging for sleep. If he's working alot, then don't pressure him more by wanting sex. Take things into your own hands. I'm 9 months pregnant and my drive waxes and wanes. Its all good. Sometimes when I'm dying for sex and DH isn't, I remember that sex got me pregnant in the first place..Doesn't matter how much I claim I'm a virgin, sex got me pregnant.
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Registered: 01-11-2004
Sat, 06-25-2005 - 9:54am

Morning Ladies:
1-ITA with your response, Tish. IMHO, the husband and wife should talk to the doctor about having sex. Ask the doctor about hurting the baby.

2-IMHO, the TOUCHING binds two people together. If hubby is NOT satisfying her, she might START with a foot or leg massage. In my marriage, massages can be less "demanding" than sex sometimes. When going to the mall, we make sure to hold hands and arms.

Mac

 

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Registered: 05-02-2003
Sat, 06-25-2005 - 7:19pm
I would definatly say that he might have a fear of hurting the baby a common problem with men, you can't blame them really. So talk to him and let him you really want some. I have a feeling he will ablige. I know very few men who are constantly to tired to have sex:-)
Christine
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Registered: 05-23-2005
Sat, 06-25-2005 - 11:14pm

I feel for you... I am on the opposit end, my wife is 30 weeks pregnant, and I have had sex 2 x in the last 4 months. It was the same way with our other 2 kids, sex died once pregnancy happend

sucks here