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Premature Ejaculation Remedies
| Sun, 12-12-2004 - 7:53pm |
Hi. I have been married for 4 years. My husband has ALWAYS had a problem with PE. Throughout our marriage we have tried various pills, creams, etc... to help the problem. Nothing ever works.
It's gotten to the point where I have spent 4 years completely unsatisfied and thinking about having an affair. After talking with some close friends I have decided to give things another try. My husband has been loking on-line for herbal remedies. He was reading about Libidus today. Has anyone used this? Any advice or opinions?
Thanks in advance!!
Chantel

There are exercises that he could do. I can't give the details, I'm sure someone here will be able to explain...
As far as your unsatisfaction... oral, manual, vibrator, dildo... a man with premature ejaculation problem can still keep you very satisfied.
Hi Cocoagirl:
1-A good book to have is ESO: Extended Sexual Orgasm by Alan P. Brauer, M.D., and Donna Brauer.
What are you calling Premature ejaculation? Is it that he doesn't last long enough to satisfy you? That's not PE......PE is when he doesn't even get to enter you.
Has he been to a doctor to be checked out? Chances are that it's not something physical, but something emotional. Pills and herbs can't help that. He can train himself to last longer with the start and stop method.
But more importantly than that.....if you're like most women, you're not going to have orgasms from intercourse alone anyway. If he takes enough time for foreplay to satisfy you orally or manually.....you won't be frustrated. Then he might be able to build enough confidence in himself to be able to last longer. Hopefully, you're not complaining or belittling him for this problem, because that only makes it worse.
If you think it's worth an affair just to have an orgasm, that doesn't say much for your marriage or your feelings for your husband! It would be better to put that effort into working with your husband, and even a sex therapist if that's necessary. That's a positive thing......affairs are only negative, and don't cure anything, just add more problems.
If you are both unhappily married, then why are the both of you still married?