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pretty nervous
| Thu, 07-21-2005 - 12:42pm |
okay here is the deal i havent had sex in about two years... my boyfriend is moving here the first of september and living with me, i am so excited about being with him and having a wild sex life like we both want... but at the same time i am scared to death after all this time has gone by... has anyone else encountered this or dealt with this... he knows how long it has been for me and he knows i am nervous but i want to get over that before he gets here any ideas?
~AmBri
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What exactly is it that you're so nervous about? Him seeing you naked? Him feeling that you are inhibited or frigid? I'm not sure what your fears are so it's hard to reply to that aspect of your problem.
I can assure you though, that many of us go through periods of celibacy, for many reasons, even within marriage! But sex is like riding a bike...you never forget how it's done. Each partner is different in their preferences, etc. but the basics are the same.
Respond to him spontaneously, that shouldn't be hard since you care for him and you haven't had sex in a while, and just be yourself. Don't worry about what he's thinking or feeling, just be in the moment and enjoy one another. Nothing is more erotic than a fully responsive and enthusiastic partner.
Have fun and stop worrying! I'm sure he's not!