Problem?

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Registered: 10-08-2004
Problem?
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Sun, 02-05-2006 - 12:47am
So me and my bf have been together for 10 months now. when we first started dating we had sex a lot and stuff. but now I just don't feel very sexual lately. I'm not that sexual a person to begin with. I feel some things are more important in a relationship then sex. But I do tend to worry about...everything. and now I'm worring about this. I still feel very much in love with my bf and just the thought of losing him brings tears to my eyes and makes me feel afraid. He says that its ok. And we do still have sex, just not as much as we used to. Also when I started taking birth control about 7 months ago I thought it was that but now i've been off for about a month and I still don't get turned on a lot. Of course I did just start a new job and my old job was very stressful. but im not sure if that would have anything to do with it. Our relationship seems good to me. I'm happy when I'm not worring to much. Some times my bf bugs me and sometimes we argue but we always resolve any fights quickly and I am a very impatient person with everyone. I guess relationships are something you have to work at. they don't just happen by themselves. I just get worried because of the sex thing. and its not just with my current bf. in the past its been the same thing. I don't orgasim very easily or get turned on quickly so it takes a bit of work. I was just wondering if there was something wrong with my relationship or if it was ok to not be that sexual of a person?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: me333206
Sun, 02-05-2006 - 9:45am

Of course there are more important things in a relationship than sex, there are many important things in a relationship but sex is also important.


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