Problems with Doggy style..
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Problems with Doggy style..
| Sat, 11-05-2005 - 10:50pm |
my bf and i have tried several times to do doggy style. yet it seems everytime we try his penis won't stay in me and it falls out after a few goes at it. and a lot of the time he can't get it in at all. don't get me wrong.. my bf is well. on the larger side. about 9"ish. so i don't think that size is the issue. is there any alternative to the position to get it to work?? any advice you might have would be most appreciated. hehe.

Like everything else worth doing, it takes practice.
He's got to get his "rhythm" right. He has to learn how to move so that he doesn't slip out.
Also, you might be too high, or too low. Try different things, you kneeling on the bed, him standing, you bending over, and him holding your hips. Find a way to get your back end higher or lower.
It's different for everyone, and if you try different things, eventually you'll find what works for YOU.
Doggie sometimes takes practice and trying different positions.
Jess,
Doggie is one of those positions that is simple in theory, but harder in practice. As you noticed, it doesn't have much to do with penis size, however it DOES have a lot to do with the relative length of your femur bones. Very rarely do heights match up exactly between partners.
I love rear entry positions, my penis is about the same size as your bf's and have been with my wife for almost two decades (lots of practice in other words) and we still find doggie a bit tiring at times as I am quite a bit taller than she is. A good way to practice rear entry that will allow you both to enjoy yourselves, is to use a pillow or two beneath your hips and let your head drop down onto the bed. He can then put his weight onto your without causing too much strain, and the length of your femurs becomes a non-factor. This will also free up both your hands and his if you want to play with your clitoris. THis is a favorite of my wife and I.
Good luck!
Scott.