Pushing away during orgasm?

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Registered: 01-24-2006
Pushing away during orgasm?
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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 9:26am
Just wondering if anyone else has dealt with this.
Most of the time, when I orgasm, I "ride it out" so to speak until it's done. But a few times, it's been right in the middle of the orgasm, and I've felt the need to push my BF away. The last time, I was on top, and right in the middle of it, it felt good, but was also almost painful, does that make sense? Anyway, right after I started coming, I like jumped off him, and couldn't let him touch me (touch my "region" he was holding me) until the orgasm was over. He thinks when I do this that I don't come, which isn't true. I do, I just can't be touched or stimulated while it's happening. Does this happen to anyone else? I just wanted to know if it was normal. There have been a few times when an orgasm has made me cry, and during those times, I just want him to hold me until it's over, and at those times, it doesn't bother me if he's still touching me.
I also was wondering about the whole feels great but is almost painful. I don't really know if that is the best way to describe it, but that's the only way I can think of. Does that make any sense? Is that fairly common?
Any help would be apprectiated. Thanks in advance.
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Thu, 04-13-2006 - 10:21am

Well, you know they say that there's a fine line between pleasure and pain so it makes sense that sometimes, you might cross over that line.

I know there have been times when we have engaged in marathon sessions of sex and experienced both pleasure and some discomfort from friction, muscle fatigue, hyperarousal, etc. so I don't think what you're describing is that uncommon.

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Registered: 12-24-2005
Thu, 04-13-2006 - 2:23pm

Orgasm can be a very intense thing,

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Registered: 01-24-2006
Thu, 04-13-2006 - 3:25pm
Thank you both for your answers. I felt like it was normal, but when BF started asking, it made me curious. I appreciate your help.
I don't think BF understands because he doesn't orgasm during sex, only by himself, so he doesn't get what it's like when there is someone else involved.