Pushing the Envelope of Comfort Zones!em

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Registered: 06-24-2004
Pushing the Envelope of Comfort Zones!em
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Sat, 12-30-2006 - 3:43pm
If someone asked you advice on getting out of their comfort zone, what advice would you give?

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Sat, 12-30-2006 - 11:31pm

How about Skydiving?

But seriously, assuming that you're talking about sex, first you'd have to know what their comfort zone IS! Everyone's is different. For some people, anything beyond missionary is kinky! For others, group sex is boring!

You'd have to know the starting point!

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Mon, 01-01-2007 - 8:47pm

Yeah, you have to know what they are talking about. You definitely have to have some idea of what they definitely don't like and what are complete no-go areas for them.

Other than that, take baby-steps towards what you want to do. Don't throw them in at the deep end.

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Registered: 08-16-2006
Wed, 01-03-2007 - 10:45am
proceed only with caution and extreme patience and be more than willing to back down.
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Registered: 09-25-2004
Wed, 01-03-2007 - 11:47am

I'd personally tell them to take their time and not push into anything they might regret later.

While sexual exploration is rewarding and fun, there can be times when pushing yourself too far has consequences you didn't expect. I'm all for the adventure but only if I'm willing and sure.