Que pasa?!

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Que pasa?!
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Sun, 04-24-2005 - 10:46am
DH is out of town.>So far, he's been gone two weeks and he's due home Friday. We were talking about sex on the phone yesterday morning..(DD was with her BM for this weekend, so it was ok)..He said that he wishes I would dominate him harder? WHAT THE HECK DOES THAT MEAN? How on earth do you dominate someone harder?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: jenniekg
Sun, 04-24-2005 - 11:42am

You'll have to find out from him what he means and how dominant he wants you to be.


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In reply to: jenniekg
Sun, 04-24-2005 - 12:25pm
*LOL* I already call the shots in bed! And out of it too..I tell him how, when, where, how hard, how fast, what position..etc..He loves it..I guess I will have to ask him what he means by it because I'm baffled..I'm thinking, "Does he want me to spank him? Does he want to be tied up more? (can't now b/c we don't have a headboard)?" *shrugs* I know he told me that he wanted me to tell him more of what I like and want in bed..I thought everything was just fine...He said he wants me to write down a fantasy while he's gone and he'll do the same and when he gets back, we'll exchange..I can't do it, though, because I really don't have any..The one I did have, we fulfilled. I don't fantasize about sex because I'm too mentally/physically exhausted at the end of the day..As soon as my head hits a pillow, I'm gone. When it comes to sex, I'm still shy. I'll get it all figured out. He did tell me one fantasy about when he comes home..He says he'd like to get off the plane, come through the lobby and see me sitting there in a long black skirt, thigh highs, and my 3" mary janes, and any kind of shirt will do..He said he'd like my hair up and out of the way..and me totally commando..*blushes* He wants to get home and get freaky..I can do all but the thigh highs and the mary janes..Can't drive in 3" heels..Too pregnant to want to do it..Don't want to get a nosebleed *LOL* But, I'll work on that one fantasy. *L*
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: jenniekg
Sun, 04-24-2005 - 1:09pm

Drive in flat shoes and slip on the heels when you get there.


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Registered: 09-25-2004
In reply to: jenniekg
Sun, 04-24-2005 - 6:40pm

The one major fantasy I did have, we fulfilled to a degree. I do want to go for a drive up on the parkway, pull over in as secluded spot as possible, and make love in his car..He's got the perfect car for sex..A '77 Lincoln Continental. Or a "picnic" on the parkway...And the only eating being done will be by him..Just different locales, really.

As for the shoes, won't wear 'em. I bought them on a whim and paid for it two days after wearing them. They really hurt my feet and leave bad, bad blisters. He knows this, but I can always go out and find a pair of cute shoes..Shoes are my thing..*LOL* Aw, well. We talked just a little while ago. He said that we'd have a nice talk about bedtime..