Quesiton about the Balls?
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Quesiton about the Balls?
| Mon, 08-13-2007 - 11:33am |
So my bf likes me to lick and kiss his balls...a lot. I've kinda done it before with other partners but he loves it all the time. It's a little weird for me but I don't mind doing something that he likes so much. The problem is that he's really hairy down there and that's what gets so annoying about it! I would be even enjoyable for me if there wan't any there! And I wouldnt feel like I'm eating hair while I'm down there. Any suggestions? Do I ask him to shave them? (one of my ex's used to do that) How would I ask that? Thanks!

Well, every guy is different and he may not wish to shave at all, but I know that if I were told "You'll get a lot more attention down there if...." I'd dye the darn things dayglo orange if that's what she wanted. :-)
That's what the wife did when she wanted me to stop shaving completely and instead keep it trimmed and bushy up on top. She likes a little hair and I was very, very happy to comply.
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If he's *that* hairy, then he's going to obviously have it waxed (ouch) because shaving is probably going to make it worse, and something that he'd have to do every time you have sex. If it's course enough, it will be stubbly even hours after he's just shaved (much like his beard).
I personally think that if it's something you could "overcome" yourself, then you shouldn't even mention it. You're only going to make him feel obligated to "keep up" with it, and it will not be easy, unless of course he gets it waxed. But even then, he has to let the hair grow in between waxings (it has to be long enough for the wax to grab it) and, and then you're back to where you started.
It's your choice, though...I think it would be a lot worse, take out all of the spontaneity, and make him feel "a little weird" if he happened to skip a day.
Women have been giving men fellatio since the beginning of time...and we're still here!
;-)
Dayglo orange, now that's something you wouldn't see every day.
Is it the actual hair on his balls that bothers you? Or is it the hair that comes loose while you are giving them the attention you do? Nothing worse than a pubic hair stuck in the back of your throat I know! *hack hack cough* lol
In any case if its because of the hair coming loose and getting in your mouth that you are wondering about this -- try using a fine tooth comb on the hair before you put your mouth there. He'll like the attention (be sure to be careful or buy a good comb though that doesn't have sharp points on it) and you will seldom get the loose hairs in your mouth anymore. One of my ex (hairy) BF's loved me combing him there and it does work at getting loose hairs off (rather than in my mouth!).
If you would rather have him shave just suggest it to him gently like "You know I love doing this for you but it would feel so much better to you if the hair wasn't in the way" which btw is true! Shaving WILL NOT make the hair grow in more coarse or thicker. That is an old wives tale brought about because young men that start shaving find their beards growing in coarser and thicker -- NOT because they shave but because as they get older that is what happens.