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Registered: 07-01-2004
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Fri, 09-09-2005 - 5:20pm
I had my tubes tied one week ago, and the dr said I could resume my sex life when i felt ready...well i am ready...and my hubby says i am not healed yet and wont give me any...I feel fine, i dont hurt at all anymore...how can i get him to change his mind..and for those of you who have had ur tubes tied...how long after ur surgery did u wait....thanks..
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Registered: 05-01-2003
In reply to: raedwards15
Fri, 09-09-2005 - 5:41pm
It was a while back now, but I think it was about a couple of weeks. Elaine
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Registered: 07-01-2004
In reply to: raedwards15
Fri, 09-09-2005 - 5:50pm
i dont wanna wait a couple of weeks..i am horny now and want it now...i dont hurt at all, but he stills seems to think i am not healed all the way...and my bdays is sunday and we always have sex on our bdays...ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....i just wanna scream..i hate being horny and not being able to relieve it..lol..
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Registered: 03-09-2005
In reply to: raedwards15
Fri, 09-09-2005 - 6:08pm
So why don't you have him play with your clit? Shouldn't hurt anything not healed as your clit is not really part of the operation.
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Registered: 07-01-2004
In reply to: raedwards15
Fri, 09-09-2005 - 6:16pm
cause i can only take so much oral before i want intercourse....that would just be a tease to me
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Registered: 06-14-2002
In reply to: raedwards15
Fri, 09-09-2005 - 6:26pm

Be happy that tonight when you go to bed, your husband will be there next to you. My wife can't say that. I have been away on business for almost 4 weeks, but I am not going to complain, because I think about all the families where one spouse is deployed overseas for a year or more. Monday, you can ask your Dr. to call him and tell him that it is safe.

CH

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Registered: 07-01-2004
In reply to: raedwards15
Fri, 09-09-2005 - 6:35pm
I am very happy that I have him next to me..but i would be much happier if i could have him next to me and inside me....lol..sorrry
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: raedwards15
Fri, 09-09-2005 - 6:44pm

When I had my tubes tied, the doctor told me after 5 days would be okay if I felt good.


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