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Registered: 06-28-2007
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Mon, 07-16-2007 - 8:54am
Are the contractions I feel when she orgasims involuntary on not?
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Registered: 05-11-2007
In reply to: elvisfarmer431
Mon, 07-16-2007 - 8:57am

During orgasm women do have involuntary contractions. They can vary from woman to woman though and they can also vary in the type of orgasm it is. I tend to have more involuntary contractions with a clitoral orgasm than with a g-spot orgasm. The times when they happen together I couldn't tell you exactly what happens because I think I black out for second LOL.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: elvisfarmer431
Mon, 07-16-2007 - 9:33am

I know that I have involuntary contractions -- feeling much like muscle spasms -- when I have an orgasm. Although, this is not always necessarily true as the contractions vary with the intensity and type of orgasm I have.

Also, it is possible to voluntarily contract muscles at the opening of the vagina, and depending on how toned those muscles are, the feeling of being gripped can extend further up into the vagina.

The involuntary and voluntary contractions may also occur at different spots inside of the vagina, and produce a different feel to you when inside. As an example, I know that during an orgasm that is mainly caused by clitoral stimulation, the involuntary contractions that I feel are on the front wall of my vagina; however, I may also voluntarily contract my PC muscles at the same time.



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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: elvisfarmer431
Mon, 07-16-2007 - 10:03am

She's the only one who knows if they're voluntary or involuntary. It can be either.

What you're asking is "is she faking?".....and again, only she knows.

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Registered: 07-15-2007
In reply to: elvisfarmer431
Mon, 07-16-2007 - 10:55am

elvisfarmer,

Like tami - my wife also tends to black out. But as I mentioned on another thread, sometimes my DWs orgasms get so intense by her 8th or 9th that her muscles will actually push me out of her.

-LG