question about anal sex

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Registered: 08-02-2005
question about anal sex
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Tue, 01-03-2006 - 5:34pm
My boyfriend and i has had anal sex a few times and each time he wants to cum in me but i say no because i dont know if its 100% ok to have him cum inside me. I know hes clean but should i have other concerns with anything else?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 01-03-2006 - 5:53pm

To allow internal ejaculation or not should ALWAYS be the woman's choice. IF you don't want to allow him to ejaculate anally, for whatever reason, then you don't have to and you shouldn't feel pressured to allow it.

Obviously, there are dangers of STD transmission without a condom and also bacterial infections for you if he is going from vaginal to anal and back again, even with a condom.

But the only way you can get pregnant, if that's what you're alluding to, is if semen drips down into the vagina, as in from the doggy position. IF you're on your back, then there's less chance of that happening BUT you are not completely protected unless you're using a condom and/or BCpills, etc. anyway.

IF you are sure that he's STD-free, he's agreed not to switch from vaginal to anal, etc., and you're on the Pill or some other birth control, then it's up to you whether you allow it or not.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 01-03-2006 - 6:18pm

Kat said everything I was going to say.


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