question about anel sex...

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Registered: 01-31-2007
question about anel sex...
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Sun, 02-04-2007 - 7:56pm
my hubby likes to have anel sex and i do sometimes to but the problem is that sometimes it hurts me and i make him stop. does anyone have any suggestions on how to make it not hurt so that hubby can have his way with me without me making him stop? we have tryed the ky and sometimes it works but other times it dont...i need help...
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 02-05-2007 - 5:59pm
Have you tried doing anal play and penetration

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Registered: 01-31-2007
Mon, 02-05-2007 - 6:11pm
what do you mean by anel foreplay? i dont want to sound stupid but i dont know
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 02-05-2007 - 6:26pm

Instead of going right into anal sex, have him use his fingers and anal sex toys on you first until you are really worked up and ready for his penis.


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Registered: 01-31-2007
Mon, 02-05-2007 - 9:14pm
they have different toys for anel sex? what would you suggest using?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 02-05-2007 - 9:35pm

There are all different kinds of anal toys (anal vibes, butt plugs, anal beads, probes, prostate stimulators, the list goes on).


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Registered: 09-13-2006
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 4:00pm
Hey there....the first couple of times you try anal sex, he should be very gentle and go very slow. It makes take a few times before you aren't experiencing pain any more. Make sure he takes his time....as you do it a few times you will feel more comfortable with the sensations and you will begin to enjoy it. I found that having sex doggy stule was the best position so that you don't feel as much pain. The more you do it, the less it will hurt and then it will be all good. Don't forget about the lube...very important. Eventually he will be able to go harder, faster and deeper, and then you will be able to try different positions. Have fun!
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Registered: 01-31-2007
Tue, 03-13-2007 - 4:56pm
he is always gentle but hte pain is always in my stomach. we have gotten a few different types of lube and a "toy" that all helps a little. i just dont like it all that well because of the pain but he loves to have anel sex.