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Question about an email
| Fri, 01-28-2005 - 11:44pm |
Hi all - never been in one of these chat rooms before. I found an email that my husband had written to a "friend." I know it sounds stupid, but I'm trying to figure out what exactly they're talking about.
The friend wrote: "I need some advice. Should I put sugar in my hot coffee before I throw it in my face, or after."
My husband wrote back "I prefer the sugar added after I throw it in my face or in my lap simply for the sake of the sticky )(#*$ mess it creates."
Are they talking about sex, or now that I think about it more, drugs? What exactly does it mean?
I accidentally posted on the health part before. Sorry!

Hi Naive......just as an FYI, this isn't a chat room, it's a message board. Chat rooms are "live time".....several people are there at the same time, saying things and replying to each other. This is very different. People come here and read the messages. Some reply, some don't.....but you can get replys for several days, or even weeks.
As for your husband's e-mail, I haven't got a clue what that's about. My guess is something sexual. Why were you looking at his e-mail? I'll assume you don't trust him. Why the quotes around "friend"? Has your husband cheated on you? Does he use illegal drugs?
This is something you're going to have to discuss with him. Whether he's guilty of something or not, he's not going to like it that you snooped on him. If he's given you reasons not to trust him in the past, then he probably won't tell you the truth anyway.
People who find it necessary to snoop in their partner's private business usually find things that they don't like. People don't usually snoop unless they have a reason to do it. Now that you've found that, you have two choices...forget about it, or talk to him about it. My curiousity would get the best of me, I'd have to ask him.
Welcome to the board!
There's just a ton of unique personalities here, so perhaps someone actually has an answer for you.
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Too Naive, I always say....when in doubt, ask. Especially if you two share the computer and frequently come across one another's emails.
It's possible that you're just reading this out of context and it's an ongoing discussion about something silly. It's probably nothing but it does sound a little strange. So ask.