Question about positions & stimulation

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Question about positions & stimulation
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Thu, 03-24-2005 - 9:36am

Hi! My question is directed mainly at the guys, but if you are a woman and use this position often too, feel free to post any comments. My SO always loves to enter me from behind, saying its his favorite position, whether we are both standing or i'm on my knees. Does this position offer more stimulation for guys? Is it tighter for guys somehow? I have to say when standing this position definetly gives me the best orgasm, but I'm not sure how it makes it any better for him. I know he also is a fan of anal sex, so I was also wondering if this was his way to fantasize that he really is having anal sex with me? Any comments would be welcomed, or tips in general about making this position even better. Thanks!

Kat

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Thu, 03-24-2005 - 11:46am
I love taking my DW from behind because I love looking at her great ass. It also feels better for me than in a lot of other positions. Also, I love it so much because I know that 99% of the time she can orgasm in that position.
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Thu, 03-24-2005 - 12:55pm

This is one of our favorite positions, too. My DH loves being able to thrust freely and he loves looking at my body in this position. I enjoy it because the weight of his erection stimulates the front wall of my vagina more effectively.

I think it's the visuals and the deeper penetration that men enjoy though.

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Thu, 03-24-2005 - 3:16pm

So, another one called "Kat" around here, huh? LOL! ;)

Mrs. Para & I enjoy cowgirl the most actually. Different men like different things anyway.

Doggy and even anal would make sense I suppose to be enjoyed mostly for the visual, the extra tightness and the free range of thrusting motion. There's always different combinations of enjoyments that develop different appetites in couples though, so I usually avoid the guessing game anyway.

For my marriage though, cowgirl provides perfect grinding at its DEEPest for the both of us and we enjoy the added face/face intimacy too much as well, so thats our personal favorite and thats the reason(s) why. Doggy is fun, but we mostly enjoy and finish with woman superior.

Different tastes for everybody.

 

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Thu, 03-24-2005 - 5:40pm
Dh likes it because he likes my ass. He also likes it because it allows for hard, fast thrusting. He also likes it because it is one of the few positions in which we can both work it. (i.e. WOT, he really doesn't have much control or ability to move, Missionary, I don't have much control or ability to really move -- with "doggy style" we can both partake heavily, so if one of us gets tired the other takes over)


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Thu, 03-24-2005 - 11:02pm

Okay, what's Cowgirl?

And I'm envious of you all. Having it from behind while standing is one of my strongest fantasies, however I'm thinking a step-stool will be involved (LOL) because I'm 5'2" and he's 6'4".

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Thu, 03-24-2005 - 11:42pm
That's what me and my DH do. And we have a high bed so a stool for my DH is necessary. He's a lot taller than I am, too, but not enough to make up the difference. So, break out a step stool, lean over the edge of the bed and tell him to climb aboard!


Edited 3/25/2005 12:44 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Fri, 03-25-2005 - 8:16am

>>Okay, what's Cowgirl?<<

This is where the woman straddles the man and she faces away from him (she's looking towards his feet). An ex girlfriend used this position a lot because her cervix was VERY pronounced and she *loved* rubbing it, not hitting it, rubbing. With this position, she got me nice and deep until my frenulum, the sensitive spot right below my cockhead, was on her cervix, tilted her body at a 45 degree angle, and just made small rubbing motions. Sort of like how one would rub a clit, she loved that on her cervix.

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Fri, 03-25-2005 - 10:31am
Cowgirl is woman-on-top, sitting up, facing the man she's 'riding'. What you're describing, where she's facing his feet, is called 'reverse cowgirl'.
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Fri, 03-25-2005 - 11:39am

Kitty

From this males perspective, yes, from behind is my (our) favorite position for a few different reasons. One, I can see myself penetrating my wife, and I can look at her sexy ass (I think men tend to be more visual).

Also, if she is in the mood, we can do anal, or I can easily stimulate that area with "whatever" she has the desire for....

Another would be that she can reach back with her hands and grasp mine, and we can increase the amount of thrust we both provide, using pillows to prop her up...

She can also reach between her legs, stimulate her clit while I penetrate her....she can also handle my "area" underneath while I thrust, and thats a big turn on to her.

Plus, depending on how wide she has her legs on the bed, it can increase or decrease the "tightness" of her areas, depending on what we are both in the mood for.

OK, too much info?

:-)

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Sat, 03-26-2005 - 7:22am

Just curious, what is it about the standing doggy that makes it more enjoyable for many of you than the kneeling doggy?

Is it the more free range of thrusting or something?

TIA

 

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