Question : about sex with a new guy?

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Registered: 03-31-2003
Question : about sex with a new guy?
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Tue, 08-24-2004 - 1:30pm


How soon is too soon to have sex with my new "unoffical" but almost

new boyfriend? We really click and can talk about anything. He's so

sweet and resposible. And he's a really family orientened man. He's

very close to his brother and nephew. Not that , that matters. But,

I am wondering how soon is too soon to have sex with a new boyfriend?

Espically, since we've both just kind of have gotten out of a relationship.

Should we take it slow? But, what if we get caught up "in the moment".

I want him to like me and I want it to work out. Any suggestions??? Since,

he helps take care of his nephew. Do you think this means he won't have sex

for awhile? Yes, I admit I want to with him. But, I also, want to have a

good relationship that will last with him.. I'm confused... I really like

him. But, I'm not used to being with a good man like him.. My last couple

of boyfriends. We're rushed relationships. Meaning: we jumped right into

having sex and of course it didn't work out...

I guess my question is. How do I let him know that I'm way into him without

scaring him away?

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 08-25-2004 - 8:56pm
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