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| Sun, 07-29-2007 - 9:48am |
Hi,
I've never posted or even looked at this particular board before, but I saw it this morning and decided to give it a shot. I am 36 years old, single, attractive, and definitely not a virgin, but I have always always always had an issue with being on top. Basically, I don't know how to move when I get up there. Up and down? Back and forth? All around? Fast? Slow? I'm being completely serious, although I am cracking myself up right now.
I don't know if this board is the right place for this (although I have seen posts about lubing and anal sex, so I'm imagining nothing is too personal here), and I'm also not sure what anyone could even tell me over this medium. But if you can give suggestions, please do!

I do all of those things when I'm on top. Not so much up and down....kind of like your grinding on him, that way you get clitoral stimulation. I love being on top...men love watching and that's a great view for them. It's also a great way for them to play with your breasts. There's no right or wrong way to move....just whatever feels good to you, I mainly just move in a back and forth grinding motion. Hope this helps!
I agree with the other poster, it's an individual thing....because being on top is really more for the woman than for the man. He'll "enjoy" it.......but most men don't "finish" that way......
A lot of women try to squat on their heels, and imitate the man by "thrusting"....and for most of us, our legs will give out very quickly, and it's also a good way to hurt yourself or him, if it happens to pop out! It's better to kneel, and then move in a "grinding" motion....whether back and forth, or in a circular movement....either way you get the clitoral stimulation, and if you get it just right, you might hit the "g" spot.....and wind up ejaculating.
In any case, do what feels good. As far as anal sex is concerned, just go to the top of the board, and type in "anal" in the search box, and you'll find hundreds of posts where it's been discussed ad infinitum.
Like anything else, being on top is something that most of us have to practice. You don't just get in a car and start driving, you have to get the feel of it, and practice a little before you're ready to get your license. Think of the fun you'll have practicing!