Question for the guys: 1 or 2 hands?

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Question for the guys: 1 or 2 hands?
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Mon, 07-25-2005 - 11:55am
There is an innocent thing that my man does which cracks me up: he uses both hands to get himself off. It is hilarious if only because I've never seen such purposefulness before lol. I am not on bc yet and he has just been pulling out (... i know, not the best idea, but we've been ok and i'm about to go on the pill ...) and if he's going to cum on my belly for example he'll grab it with his right hand and the sperm will start coming out but not hard, then grab it with his left hand too and it really starts shooting out for a bit. Then he will keep stroking it with both hands for a bit, take his left hand off and keep stroking it with his right hand for a long time and even hang onto it when he puts it back in my mouth. It cracks me up because I've never seen a guy use both hands before, and he _always_ does, whether it's on the belly or facials or whatever. Guys, do you do this?
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Registered: 12-20-2004
Mon, 07-25-2005 - 2:38pm
Im thinking most guys wont do this because if you have to fists on your penis, it will be a little over 6 inches, and most guys are only about that length.
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Registered: 11-22-2004
Mon, 07-25-2005 - 3:11pm
He just does it one hand around the other. I don't think it would be long enough to put one hand behing the other. Lessee first he puts his right hand on it, with the thumb pointing straight out on the top and kind of massaging the peehole, and then grabs around/under that hand with his left hand - it looks like the left hand kind of tightens the grip down for him and massages the left side of the head at the same time. So as he is cumming the peehole is right between the two thumbs which are parallel maybe 1/2" apart. I imagine all you guys j/o in very very particular ways but this is the first time I've seen anyone do that. It really cracks me up the way he always does it exactly the same way and is just so into it!
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Mon, 07-25-2005 - 7:46pm

That's not how I do it, but just goes to show you that every guy has their own specific way of hitting their buttons. Kinda an interesting question actually. You hear about how women have different methods and tricks all the time, but you rarely hear about exactly how guys do it.

This may be TMI, but I'm right-handed and grip without the thumb pointing forward - more or less your basic fist. I guess I barely stimulate the tip at all. It's all from a firm grip around the shaft and sliding my foreskin back and forth over the corona with a bit more pressure on the underside of the head for me. I cup the fingers of my left hand under my scrotum and curl my thumb around the base of the shaft so that I can press my fingertips against the perenium.

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Tue, 07-26-2005 - 10:51am

Interesting. No, I don't think it's TMI -- that's what this forum is for. I guess you aren't circumcised (since you talk about a foreskin) ... perhaps that feels different than this guy's does for him. (BTW it seems like a foreskin would feel very good!) Like you, he really likes to have his balls caressed while cumming -- particularly sort of underneath them more or less where I believe your prostate is. But if he doesn't have a third hand ready and willing, he will just focus both of his hands on the penis itself. I guess it is pretty comical to have three hands fully devoted to his orgasm lol. The one downside of his method is that he seems to always get cum all over his fingers, and then the next thing he grabs gets cum all over _that_ unless he is thinking clearly which as I understand it you guys certainly are not after you've orgasmed. My last BF had a way to do it with one hand (but it was much thinnger) that was less dramatic and as a side benefit didn't get any on himself at all.

I don't have any methods or special tricks at all to get myself off though -- pretty plain vanilla!

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Registered: 07-18-2001
Tue, 07-26-2005 - 11:24am

I'd venture to guess a lot of guys have their own "tricks." When I'm alone and doing it, I'll take one hand and cover the head (picture somebody unscrewing the top off a beer bottle) and imitate a sucking motion with my fingers while gripping the shaft with the other hand. For the longest time, I used to grab my penis from the top side with my left hand, thumb down (picture somebody emptying a can) and reach around to the bottom side with my right hand, palm open, fingers pointing toward my balls. That made a nifty tunnel. I have no idea why, but I just kinda quit doing that sometime along the way.

Now, if I'm putting on a show for the wife, it's two fists stacked on each other (which my endowment allows me to do in reference to the earlier post) and the stereotypical up-and-down motion.

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Registered: 01-02-2005
Tue, 07-26-2005 - 1:12pm

I do. There is a very different sensation between grasping at the base and grasping closer to the tip...so if one is longer than the width of one's palm then 2 hands are required to produce both ecstacies.

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Registered: 01-02-2005
Tue, 07-26-2005 - 1:18pm

"I guess you aren't circumcised (since you talk about a foreskin) ... "

Circumsized does not mean that there is NO foreskin. Circumsized just means that the foreskin is not tight...its been surgically released.

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