Question for the guys

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Question for the guys
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Fri, 01-07-2005 - 4:15am
(... or the women who have first-hand experience watching): how do you hold your penis when you masturbate? My three past bfs and the guy i most recently had a romp with held it in very different ways. One guy had a really bizarre kind of backhanded grip on it ... but it looked really well practiced lol and like it felt pretty good. Just purely curious.
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Registered: 10-18-2003
Fri, 01-07-2005 - 7:42am
I think it's different for everyone. Xh's held it firmly and almost "jerked" on it. Df holds it very lightly and its more of a caress or a rub.

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Registered: 05-27-2004
Fri, 01-07-2005 - 9:38am

If you get 20 replies, you'll probably get 20 different answers! Different "grips", different speeds....some hold it tight, some loose. That's what's wonderful about human beings, we're all different! The more partners you have, the more differences you'll see.

That is ALSO why we have to learn to talk to our partners, and ask them what they like and how they like it. What works for one partner won't work for the next. I had a partner that loved to feel teeth during oral. Most guys CRINGE when they hear that!

If you ask women the same question...how they masturbate, you'll get as many different answers, too. Some women rub their clitoris, some "hump" pillows, some use toys. Some probably do things that you and I can't even imagine!

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Registered: 09-02-2004
Fri, 01-07-2005 - 2:17pm
Well, I do it two different ways. If I'm just stroking it, I use my right hand (curious, as I am left-handed in general), and grab it with the palm underneath and use my thumb for pressure on the top. I guess that is "normal". The other way is I will lay face down, and use like a t-shirt or something. I will kind "hump", and also reach one or two hands underneath the towel for added pressure. I actually enjoy that way more. I seem to have better orgasms that way....
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Registered: 10-23-2003
Sat, 01-08-2005 - 3:17pm

I think greenteabag it right on the money. If you asked 20 women how they did it you would be there for hours. I think guys are much the same.

Personally I like to stroke it lightly. I like the feeling of it swelling in my hand and i like to watch it grow. Its neet just to keep a hand on it and keep it going. Like I do when reading these posts. Just the thumb on top and a finger underneath is all it takes. As the tension increases or the need to get it over with arises the tempo and pressure increase and the whole hand is put to use. As the point of release is reached the pressure remains but the speed is reduced to follow the throbing and keep it going as long as possible.
One of the wierdest ways I've seen a guy do it is to use both hands. One on each side t o immitate the way an indian turns a stick to start a fire. Has anyone else seen that?

Jim

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Sun, 01-09-2005 - 10:36am

What in the world?!! Where's the rest of the guy responses??? LOL!!! Hmmm...let me go back and change my emoticon to . ;)

Anyway, if this counts at all, when the Mrs. & I change positions, sometimes my tired body wants to actually 'quit' during that change, so I kinda give my "tip" sort of a firm caressing squeeze until we're ready again (yes, we get clumsy when excited at times, so we take our sweet old time to make sure all is "safe" before continuing, but at least the house is still in one piece, LOL!!!). Other times it may take a firm short squeeze of most of the shaft along with that, but I guess I'm just 'trying' to remember my best for the sake of your thread here, LOL, cause I never really paid much attention before. :)

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