Question for guys (could be TMI)

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Question for guys (could be TMI)
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Thu, 01-27-2005 - 8:48pm
I have a new bf and things seem good. One thing he does is wierd and seemed gross until I asked him why: his penis is long, thin, almost vertical against his stomach when hard and upwardly-curved and when he has an erection the peehole is almost in his belly button. Anyhow, he seems to always wake up with a full erection and this AM I was taken aback for a second, he was peeing away into my bathtub. I said wtf and he said it just really does not feel good to pull it all the way down so as to aim at the toilet when it is like that. If he didn't hold it away and he had a hard-on, he would be peeing on himself. Makes sense I guess ... guys, does it really hurt or something to bend it downwards?

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Registered: 01-27-2005
Thu, 01-27-2005 - 9:54pm

Does it hurt ???...Well, thinking about how stiff a penis becomes during an errection, it certainly could...Think about how it responds when you are on top....It does not bend or waiver from it's duties....There is a certain amount of "downward movement" possible, but eventually the penis will begin to become uncomfortable to proceed any further...There have been many a morning, when I have had to sit down during the morning urination. And, occasionally there has been a sudden stream between the seat and the bowl..( which I dutifully clean up).....Even then with downward pressure, sucessful completion is achieved...I have never required, no pondered using the bathtub.....But with the description that you offered of your SO penis, Possibly, just possibly it is required, by him....

How about it guys...

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Thu, 01-27-2005 - 11:00pm

1) I don't care WHAT the excuse is, if I can't handle the thought of anyone or anything peeing in my YARD, there ain't no way I'm not pulling the verbal trigger on anyone peeing in my TUB!, LOL!!! This is NOT normal and there's NO excuse. JMHO. Be a man, I say, and hold it till yer ready partner, otherwise out to da bushes with ya!!! ;D

2) Despite everything else, YES it does hurt! Hurts bad enough to prevent me and the Mrs. from doing a reverse cowgirl, yep, you betcha! Unrealistic comparison as this may be, I wouldn't bend my penis the other way anymore than I'd bend my knees or elbows the other way.

Anyway, I'm not being insensitive that he's a nice guy and you care about him and all, but I still say put your foot down and make it clear that some things will make you uncomfortable no matter what the excuse nor no matter what the resolution.

Old saying still works: If you wouldn't do it in your mother's house, don't do it in mine.

 

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Thu, 01-27-2005 - 11:42pm

I don't know, Para, it seems to me it's either the tub or out the window or something (I live on the 9th floor of my building, so it's not as though I can send him outside to the bushes).

Some of you guys just seem to wake up with these erections that absolutely will not go down until you've gone to the loo.

I mean if you saw how he is made up, it's sort of understandable, it's a very unusual angle.

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Registered: 12-21-2004
Fri, 01-28-2005 - 4:46am
I wake up every morning with a very hard erection. Yeah, it hurts like hell to push it down. Imagine someone taking your erect nipples and pulling them down.Not to comfy!
On peeing in the tub, well, if you got to go that bad I guess it"s OK. I usually wait till I get soft but if I had to go badly enough who knows
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Registered: 07-06-2004
Fri, 01-28-2005 - 9:18am
You bet'cha it hurts to bend a hard erection down or even to get it sticking straight out. More like impossible. Morning is the only time the valves permit emptying through an erection. I commend you BF on the creative use of the bathtub. I always try to bend over and push down as far as I can stand it and still can miss the toilet. Sitting isn't much better trying to sit way back to make it fit and pushing the member down. It's just a male fact of life.
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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 11:16am
My DH says it does but there is the option of waiting until the erection subsides a bit which is what my DH does.
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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 11:19am
Ewwww, what if he's been doing this all along and not rinsing it out afterwards? What if she uses the tub later? This is a big no-no, IMO!
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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 11:46am

I agree, wouldn't want dh peeing in the tub either.


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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 12:11pm

Yes it could hurt all depends how much he's had to drink before going to bed, and how long he sleeps for,

I usually sit for the first Toilet visit of the day and sometimes that porcelain is cold
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Fri, 01-28-2005 - 1:37pm
Like the others have said, it does hurt if you push it down too far. Kinda like bending a finger backwards - it's only gonna go so far before it starts to stretch the ligaments and feel painful and uncomfortable. I have tried almost levitating myself horizontal over the toilet in the past, trying to get my penis pointing into the bowl, usually with pretty messily unsucessful results. The best thing to do, even when busting, is to do something else for a few minutes, like putting the jug on or getting a glass of water or something. If you can distract yourself for a couple of minutes the erection usually subsides enough to point it where you want it.
I'm dead-set against peeing in the tub though. Provided it's well-rinsed I guess it's OK but my Mum didn't bring me up that way and I find the idea unpleasant - and it's probably pretty smelly. I wouldn't want my bath smelling like a urinal.

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