Question for guys (could be TMI)

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Question for guys (could be TMI)
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Thu, 01-27-2005 - 8:48pm
I have a new bf and things seem good. One thing he does is wierd and seemed gross until I asked him why: his penis is long, thin, almost vertical against his stomach when hard and upwardly-curved and when he has an erection the peehole is almost in his belly button. Anyhow, he seems to always wake up with a full erection and this AM I was taken aback for a second, he was peeing away into my bathtub. I said wtf and he said it just really does not feel good to pull it all the way down so as to aim at the toilet when it is like that. If he didn't hold it away and he had a hard-on, he would be peeing on himself. Makes sense I guess ... guys, does it really hurt or something to bend it downwards?

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 02-02-2005 - 1:56pm
OUCH!!!

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Registered: 01-10-2005
Wed, 02-02-2005 - 2:19pm

Great thread. I'm sorry I missed it before.

My solution is to have a sponge and tub cleaner handy. then hand it to him after he pees and let him clean the tub.

I used to have that problem when i was younger, but I fly at half mast in the mornings these days.

John

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Thu, 02-03-2005 - 9:26am
The only reason it particularly matters is that we only have one bathroom here and my roommate and her bf also use it too -- plus, our beautiful but somewhat small apartment belongs to my roommate so I'm just her tenant. So far every night bf & i have been together he has woken up with a raging hard-on the next AM and has had to pee like a racehorse. I would send him out on the terrace to water the plants but it is right outside my roommate's glass doors.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 02-03-2005 - 6:21pm

i only read the first handful of responses, but i just don't see what's the big deal about urinating in a bathtub. i do it often. urine is a relatively clean substance and doesn't have the germs that excrement does. for me it's all about saving time in the morning before i rush out the door. i've even been known to urinate and brush my teeth in the shower simultaneously.

however, if it's your shower and you don't want him doing that he should respect your wishes since it's a new relationship and your place. on the other hand, how 'bout giving him some privacy in the shower. if you weren't watching him, you wouldn't know he was doing it and there'd be no conflict.

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Registered: 11-22-2004
Thu, 02-03-2005 - 9:23pm
Oh, maybe I wasn't clear, he wasn't taking a shower, he was just standing next to the tub pissing a ferocious stream onto the tiles above it. So it's certainly not that big a deal but seemed kind of yucky, yannow? Especially given that the place isn't mine. Not a huge deal either way.

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