Question for guys re 2-part orgasms

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Registered: 04-13-2007
Question for guys re 2-part orgasms
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Mon, 07-02-2007 - 2:27pm

Just wondering if this is normal: my bf will often have these sort of two-part orgasms, where he will start cumming for a couple of seconds, then it will stop, then he will keep stroking it and let's say 30-120 seconds later he will start cumming much more voluminously.

It's very wierd, I think the first time I noticed it I was giving him a bj and there was some sperm but not very much, anyhow I thought he was done, and he's like furiously pumping the thing with his hands until it started cumming a lot a couple minutes later. Anyhow, now this happens maybe half the time, it's sort of bizarre for facials and stuff to sit there looking pretty with my mouth open and 1/3 of a load on my face, then a couple minutes later I get the rest of it and everyone's happy.

Are these 2-part orgams common? Is there something wrong with him that should be checked?

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Registered: 10-16-2006
Thu, 07-05-2007 - 12:21pm
I realize I'm not a guy, but my guy also does this every once in a while. I think it's because he is trying to keep from coming, but he goes just a bit too far, and leaks out one small spurt. Then he stops, waits a bit, then goes again, and comes later. Sometimes he'll say "wait!" and pull out and I can feel that first little spurt...then he'll want to switch positions or something. I've never had him do it while he was TRYING to come, though...only when he's trying not to.
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Registered: 08-16-2006
Thu, 07-05-2007 - 1:05pm
I can do that sometimes, however it is more like mulitples for me, dang I'm glad I bought that CD, it has made it really fun.
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Registered: 05-11-2007
Fri, 07-06-2007 - 7:45pm
My BF can come without ejactulation and come with ejaculation and still stay hard and go at it again (or actually never stop). I think every guy is just different. I know I have had many partners over the years and I don't think any of them could do what this one can do (and says he has been able to do for a long time). Its nice because he can keep going because he knows he will come again and again and he is determined that he is going to wear me out one day lol (hasn't happened yet).
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Registered: 02-17-2007
Fri, 07-06-2007 - 9:49pm
Sounds to me like he is just trying to hold back. It's not a bad thing at all, as long as he IS trying to hold back. It's actually a Tantric practice. If it is involuntary he may want to see a doctor.