Question for the ladies.

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Registered: 10-03-2005
Question for the ladies.
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Tue, 03-07-2006 - 7:43pm

How do you feel about going down on your man??

It came up last night w/ my girlfriends. One claimed that she has never gone down a guy, ever and never will because she finds it repulsive. My other friend says she does it if she "has to" but won't unless her bf really wants it.

Let the discussion rolllll.

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Registered: 05-02-2005
Tue, 03-07-2006 - 8:21pm
I love to go down and I always enjoy it. Just the thought of doing it or seeing his erection turns me on!
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 03-07-2006 - 8:34pm

I love going down on Dh.


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Registered: 10-03-2005
Tue, 03-07-2006 - 8:41pm

I agree. I enjoy the whole act myself - they looked at me as tho I was some sort of freak or something. Glad to see I'm not off the wall for enjoying it or being turned on by doing it.

I think another turn on is that I know he's going to return the favor when I'm done. ;)

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Registered: 01-14-2006
Tue, 03-07-2006 - 11:18pm
It's all about giving. If they have never received good oral
pleasure, they don't know the value of it.
At the same time, NOTHING can get a guy harder than HIM
going down on his lady.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 03-08-2006 - 12:24am

Oral sex, for both sexes, is an acquired taste but if you care about your partner, then you enjoy giving him or her pleasure. There could be legitimate reasons why your friends feel as they do though.

I enjoy seeing how much pleasure I can give my DH. And in turn, he enjoys doing the same for me. But I always go first when it comes to oral! LOL! Men can get a little lazy if they go first. Seeing my pleasure only builds anticipation and heightens the experience for my DH.

Usually though, if a person is actually repulsed by the act, there IS a reason and it's typically, at least in my personal circle, because of a bad experience.




Edited 3/9/2006 11:47 am ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 06-06-2004
Wed, 03-08-2006 - 10:49am
i have my moments, I'll do it if he asks me to or if I'm trying to get in the mood, but it's not something I absolutely love all the time He doesn't go down on my either, I don't really care to have him down there and he doesn't seem to enjoy doing it so it goes both ways. We have great sex other then that.
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Registered: 10-03-2005
Wed, 03-08-2006 - 11:11am
I've never been a huge fan of a guy goin down on me either.. I've never had a guy that was really over-enthused about it.. but my bf absolutely loves to do it. And let me tell you, its like nothing I've ever experienced before. Plus just the fact that he absolutely can't wait to do it and enjoys doing so much - turns me on even more. And if he can make me feel that incredible, I definitely want to return the favor for him.
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Registered: 03-01-2006
Wed, 03-08-2006 - 11:30am
i love going down on my bf. i like knowing that im making him feel good and when he cums i swallow also. i just love it all.
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Registered: 01-03-2006
Wed, 03-08-2006 - 12:52pm
I absolutely love giving my fiance oral sex...LOVE IT!! In previous relationships I was never eager but with my fiance I can't get enough, I think it is because I love him so much and i love giving him pleasure...on the other hand I have never been a fan of receiving, basically because it does nothing for me. I prefer intercourse! That's my 2 cents...
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Registered: 03-07-2006
Wed, 03-08-2006 - 1:33pm
I have no problem giving oral sex, I actually enjoy it because it's a turn on to have the guy turned on by what you're doing. I have different experiences swollowing as far as tastes go. Swollowing is not something I enjoy but I will with certain guys.

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