Question for the MEN!

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Registered: 06-27-2006
Question for the MEN!
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Fri, 05-11-2007 - 9:23am

okay so I am dating this new guy and him and I hit it off great in and out of the bedroom. But he does something I have never had done before; and although I am fine with it; it is very different. If I am on my period and we are having four-play he will actually pull my tampon. I was always under the impression guys found the whole "monthly thing" gross and didn't want to know anything about it, let alone touch a tampon. So I guess I just want to know if there are any other guys out there like this and what is your view on it (i.e. no big deal, gross but hey, its sex, etc.). Thanks

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Registered: 02-09-2007
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 9:31am
I have no problem with sex when DW is on her period.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 9:49am

Welcome to the board happygirl_2006.

I'm not a guy, but I thought I would chime in with something my DH has said in the past. Although I will not let him, he says "I'll pull it out with his teeth". I don't think it's a turn on for him, it's just that he's not going to let it get in the way.



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Fri, 05-11-2007 - 9:50am

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Registered: 05-07-2007
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 10:16am
My dw and I have sex dering her period and it really is good but wet. It is not gross but you just have to go slower than normal. We do not do oral at all during that time but she is more sensitive during that time.
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Registered: 05-10-2007
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 12:39pm

This is the first time Chiming in on these boards......I guess no better one to start with then a question for the men.

My DW and I have never had a problem with sex that time of the month. However, I have never pulled on her tampon. Usually, we do a little prep work before.

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Registered: 06-27-2006
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 12:51pm
now Im not saying I have a problem with having sex while on my period it was the pulling of the tampon that caught me off guard. I just figured that was considered "no mans land" to most men. Every guy friend or past bf I have had always acted grossed out by periods. I was just curious.
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Registered: 05-10-2007
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 1:05pm
Im a guy and allthough i never came to a issue like that. I would not pull it out. That is a little too personnal.
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Registered: 10-28-2006
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 2:41pm


DH has always told me that there's nothing about me that
grosses him out. Because he loves me. He said if he didn't
love me then it would bother him. That would be his reply.

Kareese.

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Registered: 02-17-2007
Fri, 05-11-2007 - 10:00pm
The reason the poster asked this question to men and not women is to get at the truth directly and avoid the clichés that men tell women like what you just posted.
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Registered: 06-24-2004
Sat, 05-12-2007 - 12:25am

Hey Happygirl,

Welcome and feel free to ask me a guy question any time. I work for a blood bank and one of our questions is have you come in contact with someone else's blood, and a guy had, sex with his s/o, while she was menstruating. Our doc said it is considered 'clean blood'.

As for me I have helped many times with my gal's yeast infection it is easier for someone else to insert and apply cream as needed, no big deal she was (yes I am now single) no longer able to have kids so no more period. Would I pull on one or pull it out sure no problem, with my teeth perhaps on a dare or if you gave me a hard time about it, just to kinda prove it is really no big deal to me. I too have only been with a few other people, one would not let me near her for that week of the month (as in I was doing good to get a hug), one who 'let me' a few times but she did not like it or want my face or hands any-where near her vagina. I have since learned if a woman receives a good orgasm it helps with the cramps i.e. if he is willing let him and if need be one of you finish you off. I think Tish said it best 'men / people' are different some women don't want to be close and some don't have a problem with it. I for one am kinda neat I like a condom for the less mess factor and like a towel most of the time. I even like to clean her up if we did not use a condom. Kinda to be nice and kinda to be a bit of a tease knowing she is still sensitive, perhaps hoping to keep her going long enough for me to recover.

I guess another way of my thinking about it is, a taboo topic a guy would never ask his mother, or most co-workers, you are an expert of your own body perhaps you can't speak for all women but he wants to know more about you and what makes you tick.

Jason

okay so I am dating this new guy and him and I hit it off great in and out of the bedroom. But he does something I have never had done before; and although I am fine with it; it is very different. If I am on my period and we are having four-play he will actually pull my tampon. I was always under the impression guys found the whole "monthly thing" gross and didn't want to know anything about it, let alone touch a tampon. So I guess I just want to know if there are any other guys out there like this and what is your view on it (i.e. no big deal, gross but hey, its sex, etc.). Thanks

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