Question for the MEN!

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Registered: 06-27-2006
Question for the MEN!
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Fri, 05-11-2007 - 9:23am

okay so I am dating this new guy and him and I hit it off great in and out of the bedroom. But he does something I have never had done before; and although I am fine with it; it is very different. If I am on my period and we are having four-play he will actually pull my tampon. I was always under the impression guys found the whole "monthly thing" gross and didn't want to know anything about it, let alone touch a tampon. So I guess I just want to know if there are any other guys out there like this and what is your view on it (i.e. no big deal, gross but hey, its sex, etc.). Thanks

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Registered: 03-16-2007
Tue, 05-15-2007 - 7:56pm
im surprised too! wow, i thought the same as you...that guys were disgusted by "that time". hm. well, im jealous. haha my boyfriend wont have sex with me on my period! boooo. ;)
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 05-15-2007 - 8:15pm

I know my husband very well and if he didn't like having sex when I had my period then he wouldn't do it.

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Tue, 05-15-2007 - 10:49pm
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Registered: 03-16-2007
Tue, 05-15-2007 - 10:53pm
aw thanks sweeite.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Wed, 05-16-2007 - 6:09am
Sorry, I'm going to be the fly in the ointment - it's definitely not for me. Sex during her period is gross! LOL! Seriously though, I've tried in the past (and oral) a few times and it's just not my cup of tea. As for pulling on a tampon. Hmmmm. Not something that you'd ever catch me doing.... I'm afraid that I find the arousal value of that to be about nil.
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Registered: 11-26-2006
Sat, 05-19-2007 - 9:59pm
I like to gently pull on DWs tampon string while performing oral and she likes it too.
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Registered: 08-01-2006
Sat, 05-19-2007 - 10:37pm

LOL. My husband would say the same thing.... And I would have to agree, also.

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Registered: 10-30-2003
Mon, 05-28-2007 - 11:15pm

Never bothered me. I thought it was just a normal thing and is some ways very good thing she was having her period.

I have had sex with every girlfriend I've ever dated when they were on their period.

Communicaton and trust as to what is OK for both parties is the key.

I had one girlfriend that became a little "kitten in heat" the first time I pulled the tampon out with my teeth. I didn't hesitate to do it again. She would be quivering with anticipation. Of course she was very horney most of the time anyway but it seemed to really turn her on that I found her attractive then and would do that and with my teeth.

Each woman is different....as I would guess each man is different. Some women didn't want me to touch the tampon, so I didn't.

He shouldn't just yank it out. It needs to come out slowly because it drys the walls of the vagina and the tissue is sensitive. You need to give yourself some additional time to lubricate and or add lubrication after pulling it out, after all it is designed to absorb moisture.

A little planning ahead of the event is a good idea too. Towels and supplies to clean things up afterwards R a good idea.

Good sex tends to be pleasantly primally messy anyway!! LMAO

Good luck

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