Question on Quickies

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Registered: 04-01-2007
Question on Quickies
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Sun, 04-01-2007 - 10:11pm
As my mind wandered carelessly today, I thought of this question. I've never jumped in for a quickie before, although the idea is sometimes quite appealing. I was wondering what general expectations are for a woman to orgasm during a quickie, considering we generally need more time and foreplay? Love to hear your opinions!
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Registered: 12-12-2006
Sun, 04-01-2007 - 11:18pm
Like everything else, there are a lot of variables. If the woman is very orgasmic, it can happen. If not, it won't probably. And it's usually the man that wants the quickie, so most women aren't that concerned about the orgasm or lack of one, I know I'm not.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 04-02-2007 - 10:50am

For me, quickies are HOT! They are the ultimate form of spicy flirting, and yes, a woman can orgasm, but the pleasure is more about the intensity and spontaneity of the event. It feels good to do something "giving" for your partner, and gives a nice lingering feeling between sexual acts that are more time consuming and loving.

They are also a great way to let him know he owes you one (LOL) ;-)







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Registered: 04-21-2004
Mon, 04-02-2007 - 6:06pm

DW is usually the one to initiate a quickie. Every once in a while, we'll be laying in bed waking up, or changing clothes to go out, and she'll come over and grab me, or press herself against me, look up into my eyes and say "How about a quickie?" These quickies usually involve just enough foreplay to get her wet and me hard, and leave us both panting and happy afterwards.

I'd say she orgasms about 2/3 of the time with a quickie, and seems happy enough the other third of the time that its not a problem. If there's time, I always offer to finish her up with my mouth and hands, but she seldom accepts if its been a quickie.

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