question for the women

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Registered: 05-28-2006
question for the women
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Sun, 05-28-2006 - 10:20pm
I am a younger woman and new to sexual relationships. However, I have a problem concerning orgasm. Whenever I orgasm during mastubation, I notice a lot of liquid comes out, it almost looks like I've peed myself. I am afraid this is abnormnal and am afraid to have an orgasm with my boyfriend.
Is this normal? Is this part of what's referred to as the "wet spot"?
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Sun, 05-28-2006 - 11:33pm

Whatever happens to you when you have an orgasm, is "normal" for you. We're all different. If you're talking about "a wet spot" on the bed, it's lubrication, and that's what happens to most women when they reach orgasm....they lubricate heavily.

Now, if it's a LOT of liquid.....that really soaks a large spot on the bed, you could be ejaculating. Exactly how are you masturbating? Ejaculation usually doesn't happen from clitoral stimulation, but from "g" spot stimulation inside your vagina.

In any case, whatever it is, it is. That's how you react to orgasms. Do NOT let it worry you, because any guy with any experience has seen it all, and doesn't care, and in fact it's an ego builder for them, because they think THEY did it, lol Unfortunately, sex can get very messy......if it's good sex. It's all part of the experience....it happens to everyone.

Forget about it, and DON'T let it stop you from having orgasms. There are MANY women who've never had one, and they'd be thrilled if they could, messy or not.