Questions 4 you!!! Just curious.

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Questions 4 you!!! Just curious.
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Sat, 07-14-2007 - 6:31am

male or female???

what's your favorite part about sex??

How has your sexuality changed over time?

On a scale of 1 to 10 how much do you enjoy sex? 1 being the very least
and 10 being the very best.

How often do you initiate sex?

How often do you get shot down by your partner?

Do you ever find your self afraid of expressing your sexual desires to your partner?
Because of the fear of rejection.

What do you enjoy more giving or receiving?

Would you say you and your SO are on the same page sexually?

Do you ever get in arguments over sex?

When was the last time you had make up sex?

How important is sex to you?

Do you think sex can make or break a relationship?

Thank you for your answers in advance!
Can't Wait to hear your thoughts!
kareese

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Registered: 02-28-2006
Sat, 07-14-2007 - 6:54am
*male or female???*

quite male

*what's your favorite part about sex??*

Sex for me is a way to give and receive love



*How has your sexuality changed over time?*

I wouldn't say that it has changed much over time, other than I have become more comfortable sharing my desires and fantasies with my partner.



*On a scale of 1 to 10 how much do you enjoy sex? 1 being the very least and 10 being the very best.*

10



*How often do you initiate sex?*

DW and I have scheduled sex on Saturday night, and I will occasionally try and initiate sex at other times.



*How often do you get shot down by your partner?*

Less than I used to before we started scheduling it.



*Do you ever find your self afraid of expressing your sexual desires to your partner? Because of the fear of rejection.*

I used to. Not so much any more.



*What do you enjoy more giving or receiving?*

I enjoy them both, but if I had to pick only one it would be giving.



*Would you say you and your SO are on the same page sexually?*

I would say that my libido is much higher than DW's, and that sex is much more important to me than it is to her. I would also say that she attempts to understand and meet my needs, as I attempt to understand what is important to her and meet her needs in those areas.



*Do you ever get in arguments over sex?*

We used to all the time. Not so much lately.



*When was the last time you had make up sex?*

Make up sex is not something we usually have, although it has happened once or twice during the time we've been together.



*How important is sex to you?*

Extremely important. Physical touch is my primary love language.



*Do you think sex can make or break a relationship?*

Yes, absolutely.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 07-14-2007 - 8:10am

male or female??? female



what's your favorite part about sex?? Toss up between orgasms and feeling the closeness to my partner



How has your sexuality changed over time? I am much more open about discussing my desires than I used to be



On a scale of 1 to 10 how much do you enjoy sex? 1 being the very least
and 10 being the very best. 10



How often do you initiate sex? Probably around 75% of the time, or at least 3-4 times a week.



How often do you get shot down by your partner? Rarely. He usually makes some sort of announcement earlier in time that he's very tired instead of rejecting my advances -- like he doesn't give me the opportunity to make advances.



Do you ever find your self afraid of expressing your sexual desires to your partner?
Because of the fear of rejection. At one time yes, but not really anymore. Some times I don't bring things up during sex that I would enjoy trying at that particular time. I don't know if it's because of a fear of rejection though -- sometimes it's just because I want him to be in the drivers seat. Sometimes it's because I am also enjoying what is happening and hope that we will have a round 2!



What do you enjoy more giving or receiving? This is a real toss up. There are times that I love just giving in to letting him please me, but there are other times I'm destined to drive him wild -- then it's all about giving.



Would you say you and your SO are on the same page sexually? Mostly, yes. We do have an incredibly satisfying sex life, and we experiment fairly often.



Do you ever get in arguments over sex? No, never really have, although there have been phases we have been through where neither of us is particularly satisfied with our sex life. We have talked about that during those times, but not argued.



When was the last time you had make up sex? I can't think of a time that we have had make up sex.



How important is sex to you? It seems to be more important now than it ever was, but it's always been fairly important. There was a time when I had no drive, but I didn't have a drive to do anything, it wasn't just about sex.



Do you think sex can make or break a relationship? Yes, I think it can. It's just too important an aspect of a relationship; however, I think people can happily compromise about their sexual habits in many areas. It's rare that a couple will always want the same frequency, and sometimes they may not want to experience the same things. Those can be worked out so that each partner is still happy.



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Sat, 07-14-2007 - 9:41am

male or female???---Female

what's your favorite part about sex??---Feeling him inside of me.....Oh and the O....LOL

How has your sexuality changed over time?---I'm alot more open to things than I was even a year ago.

On a scale of 1 to 10 how much do you enjoy sex? 1 being the very least
and 10 being the very best.---10 of course

How often do you initiate sex?---We're about even on that 50/50

How often do you get shot down by your partner?---I can only think of 1 or 2 times in the 5 years we've been together.

Do you ever find your self afraid of expressing your sexual desires to your partner?
Because of the fear of rejection.---No

What do you enjoy more giving or receiving?---I really love giving....but man, recieveing is great too! It's a toss up.

Would you say you and your SO are on the same page sexually?---Pretty much, his libido is a tad higher than mine, but for the most part, yes.

Do you ever get in arguments over sex?---No

When was the last time you had make up sex?---Honestly, never. We've never really had a fight big enough to constitute make up sex.

How important is sex to you?---It's very important in a relationship.

Do you think sex can make or break a relationship?---In some relationships, yes.

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Sat, 07-14-2007 - 12:14pm
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Sat, 07-14-2007 - 8:54pm

male or female??? Female

what's your favorite part about sex?? The closeness and feeling loved/needed/wanted

How has your sexuality changed over time? Oh yes

On a scale of 1 to 10 how much do you enjoy sex? 1 being the very least
and 10 being the very best. 10

How often do you initiate sex? Never anymore

How often do you get shot down by your partner? One too many times

Do you ever find your self afraid of expressing your sexual desires to your partner?
Because of the fear of rejection. Yes

What do you enjoy more giving or receiving? Giving

Would you say you and your SO are on the same page sexually? Definitely NOT

Do you ever get in arguments over sex? We used to

When was the last time you had make up sex? I have no idea

How important is sex to you? Very important to me.. to hubby not so

Do you think sex can make or break a relationship? Oh yes..



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Sat, 07-14-2007 - 11:37pm

male or female??? Female

what's your favorite part about sex?? Can't just pick one thing. It's hot all the time... Just having sex with my DH is my favorite thing of all :)

How has your sexuality changed over time? I have opened up a lot more to DH about likes/dislikes and I am willing to try anything at least once...

On a scale of 1 to 10 how much do you enjoy sex? 1 being the very least
and 10 being the very best... It's a 10 all the way..

How often do you initiate sex? Not as often as DH

How often do you get shot down by your partner? Never

Do you ever find your self afraid of expressing your sexual desires to your partner?
Because of the fear of rejection... I used to be but not because of fear of rejection. Just a very strict upbringing... DH helped bring out the freak in me... so we talk a lot more & try a lot more stuff.

What do you enjoy more giving or receiving? I love giving him BJs and swallowing him all up... I also enjoy receiving oral...

Would you say you and your SO are on the same page sexually? We are closer to being on the same page.. He is a lot more freaky than me but I am catching up to him..

Do you ever get in arguments over sex? NEVER

When was the last time you had make up sex? We never argue.. we just have sex just because...

How important is sex to you? Very much so...

Do you think sex can make or break a relationship? yes, definitely..

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Sun, 07-15-2007 - 3:49am

male or female??? Female

what's your favorite part about sex?? I'm going to be selfish and say multiple orgasms

How has your sexuality changed over time? I'm more open to things than what I was in the past.

On a scale of 1 to 10 how much do you enjoy sex? 1 being the very least
and 10 being the very best. 10 - if the quality is there.

How often do you initiate sex? Some weeks a lot, some weeks I don't bother trying.

How often do you get shot down by your partner? About 90% of the time.

Do you ever find your self afraid of expressing your sexual desires to your partner?
Because of the fear of rejection. Yes, which is understandable given that nothing good ever comes of it.

What do you enjoy more giving or receiving?

Would you say you and your SO are on the same page sexually?

Do you ever get in arguments over sex?

When was the last time you had make up sex?

How important is sex to you?

Do you think sex can make or break a relationship?

 


 


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Sun, 07-15-2007 - 2:41pm

male or female??? Female

what's your favorite part about sex?? I love it all! The chemistry you feel is my
favorite

How has your sexuality changed over time? Major. Only in a positive way.

On a scale of 1 to 10 how much do you enjoy sex? 1 being the very least
and 10 being the very best. 10+++

How often do you initiate sex? Well I give lots of sexy hints. I Don't truly initiate
often.

How often do you get shot down by your partner? When I really try something gets in the way. so now I just waite for him mostly.

Do you ever find your self afraid of expressing your sexual desires to your partner?
Because of the fear of rejection. yes I do but DH is becoming more open to my ideas.

What do you enjoy more giving or receiving? I love both!! I love driving him wild!
He certently knows how to drive me wild!! Can't get enough of both.

Would you say you and your SO are on the same page sexually? Yes

Do you ever get in arguments over sex? NO something I am very very happy about!!
It's never been an issue for us.

When was the last time you had make up sex? Not to long ago.

How important is sex to you? I wouldn't say it's important to me.
What's important is being on the same page with my husband.

Do you think sex can make or break a relationship? Yes I know for a fact
it can! I grew up learning and watching it destroy a marriage. I don't think It's all because of sex. I think it's the connection and being on the same page that matters
most in every aspect of marriage.

Kareese

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Sun, 07-15-2007 - 3:31pm

male or female???
:: male

what's your favorite part about sex??
:: Tough question. orgasm of course. Getting aroused and feeling at one with my partner.

How has your sexuality changed over time?
:: How? Probably become more confident and comfortable with it. Stress less over the little things and performance and ability in general.

On a scale of 1 to 10 how much do you enjoy sex? 1 being the very least
and 10 being the very best.
:: 9.5

How often do you initiate sex?
Maybe 1/3rd of the time. I kinda have an open offer out there all the time and it's up to her a lot of the time to accept it :-)

How often do you get shot down by your partner?
:: Frequently. She doesn't really shoot me down though. She has back problems and the discomfort can put her out of the mood frequently.

Do you ever find your self afraid of expressing your sexual desires to your partner?
Because of the fear of rejection.
:: Sometimes. She can have strong opinions about things so sometimes I'll not suggest something if I know that she's not receptive to the idea.

What do you enjoy more giving or receiving?
:: It varies. I LOVE giving oral if I'm in the mood.

Would you say you and your SO are on the same page sexually?
:: Most of the time.

Do you ever get in arguments over sex?
:: Not really. We rarely argue any time, but sometimes we can have disagreements over what comes next.

When was the last time you had make up sex?
:: Haven't had a decent argument in ages.

How important is sex to you?
:: Very important.

Do you think sex can make or break a relationship?
:: Oh definitely.

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Sun, 07-15-2007 - 3:52pm

Hi Kareese,How is everything going?Nice seeing you.
Here is my answers to your questions:

Male

Pleasuring the woman I'm with.

I think that my sexuality has improved since I have had bad things to happen to me.

I would give it a 20 on the scale,but since it's not,I will have to say 10.

I try to initate sex once a week.

ALOT

No

I enjoy giving more than recieving.Always have.

Well we started that way,but I would have to say not anymore.

Yes we have.

Last time we had makeup sex,I would have to say it's been a long while.

Sex is very important to me.

Well I think that it can do either.What I mean by that is that if one partner isn't paying enough attendion to the other one sexually and is not doing his or her duties towards his or her partner needs,then it will cause that partner who isn't having their needs satified in that aspect to go out to find someone who will and that mean that it will break that relationship,But the partner who is not doing what he or she supose to do what he or she supose to do and satifing his or her partner then it will keep the relationship.

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