questions about MFM threesome

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Registered: 05-13-2004
questions about MFM threesome
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Thu, 06-17-2004 - 8:50am
What exactly goes on in a MFM threesome. I know from previous experiences FMF the women are together and the guy usualy has one of them. So is this what goes on in a MFM experience. I want to know what goes on, if someone has had experiences in MFM i would like to know what does go on.

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Registered: 11-13-2003
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 1:08pm
DP is the norm, or as you've noted with FMF, the guys could also be very "close".
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Registered: 04-08-2004
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 3:01pm
In my experience with a MFM, there was very little contact between me and the other guy. Most of it was working on her, and making sure she was pleased. She was very oral the whole time, but we went back and forth, oral and entercourse. I even sat back and watched my SO being pleased by him. It was very, very hot!!!
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Registered: 05-05-2003
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 4:16pm
I've had one threesome many years ago with a previous lover. During a conversation she expressed how erotic she thought it would be to see two guys together. She had an old boyfriend that she knew was bi, and after some discussion, and even getting together without any ulterior motives or expectations just to get better acquainted and see what kind of friendship or rapoire might develop. Anyway, there came a time when we all went out dancing and she shared her thoughts on a threesome with this guy. Once we got over to his place, he asked to know more about this type of lifestyle idea we had discussed. We all just headed upstairs, got undressed and he asked what she wanted to see ... (details ommitted) ... it was a very erotic experience.

To answer your question, it would all depend on the couple, and what each felt what type of limits need to be respected, or what type of experimenting would be up for trying out. Our society looks down on two guys together, but adores two women together ... maybe because of the people that frequent those lifestyles, or because machismo is threatened with bi men, but a femininity isn't with two women. I think that if all the normal masculine/feminine traits aren't challenged (and btw, I am masculine all the way), a threesome works best because each person has two lovers, or enjoys watching their partner enjoy having sex with someone else. Hope this helps.

Michael

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Registered: 04-21-2004
Fri, 06-18-2004 - 6:10pm
It all depends on the individuals involved. Ideally, everyone is bi and everyone gets a chance to be the focus of attention. Barring that, the woman gets a *lot* of attention.

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