Questions about Sex in Public

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Registered: 05-23-2007
Questions about Sex in Public
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Thu, 05-24-2007 - 12:22am

Hey, guys, I have some technical questions about having sex in public....

I've heard of sex in libraries, public bathrooms, hidden spots in parks, dressing rooms, ect.... but I'm wondering just how you'd go about doing this in terms of clothing... I am not a gal to wear dresses (at all).. just how would you go about getting access without getting buck naked?

Also... the area of cleaning up... a bathroom, this would be easy. But what about a library... where there's no sink, paper towels, or trash can handy. How would you go about cleaning up afterward? Especially in terms that it's something that you'd want to be spur-of -the-moment. Also, keep in mind I'm not thinking about condoms here.. these aren't something that we use.

While I'm on the subject... What other great places have you heard of/experienced?




Edited 5/24/2007 12:30 am ET by hot32mama
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Registered: 04-13-2007
Thu, 05-24-2007 - 9:07am
Dresses or skirts greatly help, for obvious reasons. As far as cleaning up, when we do this kind of thing we almost always end with a bj so there's no mess. The first time I think we did a facial on my sunglasses, and that was fine and dandy, but then i was like, uhhhh, can i borrow your shirt? lol
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Registered: 03-18-2007
Thu, 05-24-2007 - 9:09am

Hi,hotmama. In terms of cleaning up afterward, you can use the moistened feminine cleaning wipes you find in stores next to toilet tissue. You can also use regular baby wipes. Just put them in your purse in a plastic ziplock bag and you will be ready!

You can use them to clean your hands, your body, clean up spills, whatever. Hope this helps.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 05-24-2007 - 10:11am

Welcome to the board hot32mama, it's nice to have you here!

Public sex can be very thrilling, and spontaneous, but sometimes you can also plan for it a little bit. As another member said, having tissues or wet wipes in your purse can be helpful. Using an article of clothing for clean up is also an option, or at least to hold between your legs until you get to a restroom. Underwear work really well for this, especially his cotton ones. (Think along the lines of being a teenager, having sex in the back seat of a car or secluded parking place.)

Guys have the easy access of zippers or elastic waisted sweats/shorts, so there is no need for them to be naked. Skirts/dresses work best for you (obviously), but there are also elastic waisted pants that you can wear (sweats, shorts, etc.). If you're wearing jeans, you can pull them part way down and have him do rear entry as this position keeps you from having to spread your legs as wide, thus you don't have your pants down as far. Also, his body is shielding you from view. During this time of year, shorts with wider legs and bathing suits also provide for fairly easy access.

Keep in mind that sex in public is illegal, so you don't want to get caught. The idea that you "could" get caught makes this very thrilling though. In today's society, make sure you watch for security cameras before you pick your place too.

Here's an article you might find helpful:

8 Sexy Locations -- and Positions -- for Quickie Sex
http://love.ivillage.com/lnsunderstandmen/whathewants/0,,askmen_9h69m1k3,00.html

Sometimes you may not have sex to completion -- this greatly reduces the mess, but the thrill was still there. You can also complete the act with oral sex, again, no mess.



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