Reaching an orgasm
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Reaching an orgasm
| Tue, 11-07-2006 - 3:22pm |
Well....it's official.....I'm finally devirginized and loving every minute of it!
Although, I'm noticing that I'm having a harder time trying to reach an orgasm
whether we're having vaginal sex or my partner is giving me pleasure with oral sex.
I'll be lucky if I can reach at least one orgasm......What do I do???
Although, I'm noticing that I'm having a harder time trying to reach an orgasm
whether we're having vaginal sex or my partner is giving me pleasure with oral sex.
I'll be lucky if I can reach at least one orgasm......What do I do???

The first thing you do is stop TRYING to have an orgasm. Learn to enjoy what you're doing and feeling, and not think about it. Thinking about it means you're not paying attention to what you're feeling, and what you're feeling is what makes orgasms happen.
80% of women don't have vaginal orgasms unless they're getting clitoral stimulation at the same time. There's virtually no feeling inside your vagina, with the exception of the "g" spot. Your clitoris is your real sexual organ, not your vagina. During intercourse, you, or he or your position should be stimulating your clitoris.
To learn more about your body, go to www.the-clitoris.com
I'm with the other posters - just enjoy it! The more you try for the big "O" the more elusive it becomes.
Orgasms are no issue for me, they come easily and frequently, and I can only guess the majority of that is that I just don't try for them, I just enjoy what is going on.
But, CONGRATS!