Really excited, but need suggestions!!!

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Registered: 12-16-2007
Really excited, but need suggestions!!!
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Sun, 12-16-2007 - 1:04pm

Hey

First, a little background. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost (March 08 is our anniversary) 2 years. Although young, (we are both 20), we are very devoted and have decided to get married, but it won't be until after we both graduate college. At any rate, our sex life is great. We have no problems communicating and have sex rather frequently. But it has all been put on hold, we are home from college for Christmas break and therefore the sex and everything has had to stop. Naturally he and I are both rather, well, frustrated at this point. But when we saw each other yesterday he suggested that when we get back to college we devote a whole day to it (of course on the weekend), and I wholeheartedly agreed. But then I started thinking, what would be some great ideas to really make the day special? By the way, he isn't into bondage, he's made that very clear. Other than that, just about anything goes. But if anyone has any suggestions to really spice it up and make it special, I would love to hear it!

Thanks so much!!!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 12-16-2007 - 2:09pm

Welcome to the board, devoted4life2007.

One thing you could do is get him some small Christmas gifts and wrap them up. Don't give them to him until your day together. You could include things like condoms, lube, a vibrating penis ring, massage oils, etc. They could also include fun, sexy foods, music, feathers, body dusters and powders, silky scarves, or other things to stimulate the body OR sexy coupons. Of course, depending on your financial situation, you could also include sex toys, lingerie, etc. He wouldn't have to open all the toys at one time. He could pick one to open -- the two of you could play with it, then pick another and keep going in that fashion.

Since you're able to see each other now, I'll assume you don't live too far from each other. Hopefully, you won't have to wait until you return to college to have some time together ;-)





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Registered: 12-16-2007
Sun, 12-16-2007 - 4:26pm

That's a really cute, and hot, idea! Thanks so much!

If anyone else has any, I'm all ears!

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Registered: 12-16-2007
Sun, 12-16-2007 - 8:49pm

Hi there,


Try blindfolding him the moment he arrives.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 12-17-2007 - 8:21am

Welcome to the board, Ricki, and thanks for joining in.

Happy Belated Birthday too!





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Registered: 12-16-2007
Tue, 12-18-2007 - 6:59pm

Thanks for the couple suggestions I received, I really appreciate it!
Again, if anyone else has anything to add, I'd love to hear it!