Removing Condoms?

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Registered: 12-11-2006
Removing Condoms?
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Mon, 01-29-2007 - 7:20pm
I'm in my 30's and newly divorced after a 15 year marriage. I was speaking with my friends about safe sex and they've told me that men will try to remove their condoms during sex often. Is this true? And if they do this isn't that disrespectful of my wishes? I'm not sure I could continue to date a man who did that. Thoughts??
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Registered: 10-18-2001
Mon, 01-29-2007 - 11:36pm

>>they've told me that men will try to remove their condoms during sex often. Is this true? <<

Not in my experience, but your results may vary.
Wearing a condom is not just a matter of courtesy. It can be a matter of getting pregnant or not and it might even be a matter of life and death. I'm a guy and while I dislike the feeling of condoms I wouldn't sneakily try to slip it off if I had to wear one. You would be quite within your rights to dump the guy instantly and to be very angry about it.

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Mon, 01-29-2007 - 11:42pm

Oh, come on! What kind of weirdos do your friends date? I'm sure there are freaks out there that would do all kinds of strange things.....but they talk as though that's common practice. That's very doubtful!

If you don't know what kind of character a man has, then you shouldn't be having sex with them!