Reply to I hate being touched

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Registered: 09-18-2005
Reply to I hate being touched
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Wed, 11-30-2005 - 6:12pm
Well I was not abused at all...I use to not be like this. I use to enjoy being pleasured down in my genital area. It all started a year ago, especially when I found out I had HPV. It wasn't that bad at first but now it's worst...I've come to the point where I don't want to be touched at all...even when I am aroused. Am I going to be this way forever?
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Registered: 07-26-2005
Thu, 12-01-2005 - 12:02am

Well, of course, there's your answer. It happened when you were diagnosed with HPV. That's enough to upset anyone. Have you told your partners that you have it? If not, you're feeling guilty about that.

Unless you're having an outbreak, I don't think it changes the feeling or sensitivity in that area. Whatever your discomfort is, it's caused by the fact that you have an STD and it's affecting you emotionally....and I guess that is something that you will will just have to work thru if you want it to change.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 12-01-2005 - 12:32am

Of course your perception, and undoubtedly your ability to enjoy, your body and genitals was affected by this news but many people learn to live with incurable STD's.

IF you want to learn to enjoy your body and sex again, then educate yourself about this virus and learn how others live with it.

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Registered: 11-15-2003
Thu, 12-01-2005 - 11:11am

bmore....

That is a BIG lack of information that you gave us. Most of it is your perception and some may be physical. You have mentally associated your genitals with something "unclean" and so my original post to you still applies. However, if you are having pain then you need to talk to your doctor.

Peace,
Scott.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 12-01-2005 - 12:46pm

I agree with the others and that being diagnosed with HPV is what is


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