Returning the Favor

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-17-2004
Returning the Favor
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Fri, 12-17-2004 - 3:04am

Hey everyone, this is my first post on this site.

I know that theoretically this is a site for women, but as a guy I've found plenty of helpful discussions on here.

Anyway, my girlfriend recently bought some sexy black lingerie for me. Well not for me, but you know what I mean.

And she looked absolutely amazing and it and it was a major turn on. I thouroughly enjoyed every minute of it and made sure to make that known to her.

But the problem is that I'd like to do something for her in return. I can't receprocate the favor in exactly the same way so I was wondering if anyone here could give me a few tips on something that I could do for her.

Thanks.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-11-2004
Fri, 12-17-2004 - 7:29am

Hi Ragammonb:


You might research SENSUAL MASSAGE.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-13-2004
Fri, 12-17-2004 - 4:35pm
Buy her more lingerie!
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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-18-2001
Fri, 12-17-2004 - 5:41pm

I'm sure that you COULD return the favour in exactly the same way - might not get the reaction you were hoping for though...LOL!

How about candles in the bedroom and a massage as already suggested? A night away at a B&B or hotel? Dinner and dancing? When it's warmer, a blanket and a picnic - hit the deli section and pick up some nibbles there and a bottle of wine. In some ways it doesn't matter what you do as long as the intention and spirit that the lingerie was given to you is returned to her.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-22-2004
Sun, 12-19-2004 - 10:23am

RETURN THE FAVOR??????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

First of all my brother, WELCOME to the board. Any lady would probably not mind AT ALL that her guy jumped on something like this wanting to learn how to really be his best for her, like I did for my own wife too, even if its advice from a woman's point of view as well as men's. Congrats to her for having that in you. Now on with the show. :)

If you don't know about cunnilingus, which many guys still could use lessons on, then THAT is a good place to start studying (and I am still shocked right out of my chair that no one mentioned that yet!). Check out this link and learn EXACTLY how to return the favor for a lifetime!:

http://the-clitoris.com/
(try the cunnilingus tab on the left column on the main page)

Fix her a great dinner, try studying on some of those sensual massages someone else mentioned, can't fail.

This board is at your service, hope you find what you need. Good luck! Let us know what you've tried and how it went.

:)
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C h a r a c t e r


above all else


Mr. Para

 

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Registered: 06-14-2002
Mon, 12-20-2004 - 8:56am

I do ... but now two drawers in her dresser are stuffed ... and the blanket chest .... and we go rid of a bunch of stuff last summer .... hmmmmm ..... uuuuuhhhhh.... maybe I buy too much ????

CH

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-26-2004
Sat, 12-25-2004 - 11:48pm
Wear silk boxers. I love it whem my H does that.