Well reverse cowgirl is one of my favorites. The visual for the man is very hot. I especially like it with a litte variation, that being that the girl is sort of in the squatting position up on her feet rather than her knees. The penetration is awesome. You have to watch out if he pops out if you are pumping very fast he could get kind of bent. He should hold your hips so you can gage your "squats"
Also, pay attention to his ball, they are easily accessible in this position.
You've only been on top once in your life? You might want to try that again, that is the best of all positions in my opinion! Doing it in reverse is pretty much the same thing. Just take it slowly for a minute and you'll get the hang of it.
You can move your hips back and forth, or swivel/circle them. You can move up and down, too. You have such a great freedom of motion that you can do anything!
If you squat over him, as was mentioned already, bring your knees together and either slide back and forth, or rock back and forth. It gives you a different angle and different feeling.
Have to agree with the other guys here. YES, this is a great position for me and the view is really exciting.
If you have never done this, the easiest way to get started is to have him sit up first and then just sort of sit in his lap and let him penetrate you before he lies down.
Oh yes, it's very hot for the guy. He gets a great view of her backside as she rides up & down on him. And there's a certain rawness; her back's to him, no eye contact, just her body bouncing on his shaft. I guess it's like the female-on-top equivalent of doggy-style.
If you want to liven things up more, reach down between your legs and (gently!) play with his sack while you're on him, or run your finger along the underside of his shaft and up onto your clit, or look back over your shoulder while you're riding and give him a hot look so he can see how much you're enjoying him.
This position has never worked for us. My DH and I both find it very uncomfortable and I'm not sure if it's the angle or what. I like woman on top but the reverse version is a flop.
We can't manage reverse cowgirl either. It's quite uncomfortable - I suspect that the angle is the issue. I wonder if it would be easier if his erection was a tad softer.
Inacolada, I agree with soupvampire and suggest learning the standard cowgirl position if you want to spice things up - it's awesome.
I love it. The view of her vagina sliding up and down is a great turn-on. I can concentrate on watching the great view without having to worry too much about giving any other parts of her body any attention. Other than the view it's not much different than the regular girl-on-top position as far as sensation goes, IMHO.
If you've only tried regular cowgirl once you should definitely try it again! The reverse cowgirl is good for variety but the regular one is a great postion that gets well used in our bedroom. My partner loves it because she can control the depth and penetration exactly how she likes it. She can grind against my pubic bone to stimulate her clit. She loves it when I reach up and lick and suck her breasts. The face to face, eye to eye contact is great too.
An added bonus is when she perches on her feet and swivels her hips around in circles as she bounces up and down. That does great things for me too. I find it slightly difficult to orgasm in this position because the stimulation (while great) isn't quite spot-on for me. Usually we'll do this until she cums then switch positions to allow me to orgasm.
As a man, I much prefer the usual woman on top. I can look into her face and hold her breasts and just have a great time visually as well as emotionally. We have tried the reverse position without much success. It was somewhat uncomfortable for both of us.
Reverse cowgirl can be pleasurable for the woman, but it's more pleasurable for the man. Visually speaking - it's very hot. If you're able to have a big mirror in front of you while doing it, it's a nice visual for the woman also - you get to watch yourself which is always a learning and teaching experience, I think! Reverse cowgirl is just riding atop your man with your backside turned to him. I like to have my partner sit on a chair, I lean over, straddle him (reverse) while he holds on and guides my hips up and down. Again though, it's more pleasure for him. I'd rather face my partner on top.
Also, pay attention to his ball, they are easily accessible in this position.
good luck!!
You can move your hips back and forth, or swivel/circle them. You can move up and down, too. You have such a great freedom of motion that you can do anything!
If you squat over him, as was mentioned already, bring your knees together and either slide back and forth, or rock back and forth. It gives you a different angle and different feeling.
Have to agree with the other guys here. YES, this is a great position for me and the view is really exciting.
If you have never done this, the easiest way to get started is to have him sit up first and then just sort of sit in his lap and let him penetrate you before he lies down.
Have fun.
Scott.
If you want to liven things up more, reach down between your legs and (gently!) play with his sack while you're on him, or run your finger along the underside of his shaft and up onto your clit, or look back over your shoulder while you're riding and give him a hot look so he can see how much you're enjoying him.
Inacolada, I agree with soupvampire and suggest learning the standard cowgirl position if you want to spice things up - it's awesome.
If you've only tried regular cowgirl once you should definitely try it again! The reverse cowgirl is good for variety but the regular one is a great postion that gets well used in our bedroom. My partner loves it because she can control the depth and penetration exactly how she likes it. She can grind against my pubic bone to stimulate her clit. She loves it when I reach up and lick and suck her breasts. The face to face, eye to eye contact is great too.
An added bonus is when she perches on her feet and swivels her hips around in circles as she bounces up and down. That does great things for me too. I find it slightly difficult to orgasm in this position because the stimulation (while great) isn't quite spot-on for me. Usually we'll do this until she cums then switch positions to allow me to orgasm.