I don't think you should worry about a man thinking that you're "too horny". Do men even think such things (in a bad way). Maybe it's the cultural difference, but tell a Jamaican man that you're horny 24/7 and he's game lol. But on a serious note, I'm the same way. I have a really high sex drive, and as soon as I'm done, I'm ready again. My bf says I'm going to be the death of him, but he's not complaining. He calls me everything from a sex-aholic to a nympho, to his little "energizer bunny", but it's all in good fun. I guess you just have to find someone who appreciates this about you, and in your quest for that person be very honest about your desires.
In the meantime, try to take care of yourself as best you can. Maybe invest in some toys... or a cucumber (just kidding about the cucumber lol).
i'm a 28 year old guy, and postings like those here are the only things that give me hope that i didn't make a mistake by not settling down with some sweet girl with a low libido already. trust me, plenty of guys will be very happy to meet someone who is both horny AND selective. it's easy to find nice girls who don't want to have sex, and it's easy to find horny girls that sleep with everyone they meet... girls who are nice and have a high sex drive are the fantasy of the majority of men. every guy is hoping to meet someone who is only a slut for them...
(i just wonder how you learn that a nice girl has a high sex drive before you're a year into a relationship and wondering why the sex has suddenly stopped)
I guess that's the hard part - knowing which girl will be a "slut for only you" or who's going to realize she doesn't like sex a year into the relationship. LOL
Since there are people with all different libido levels, I don't think you'll have trouble finding a guy that appreciates this side of you. In any relationship, there's never a guarantee that your libidos will stay equally matched -- as each person tends to fluctuate in that area from time to time anyway. Hopefully, when you do find the person that you think is the right guy, he really will be the right guy. If the caring and commitment is there, you both share honesty and trust, than chances are, you'll be able to satisfy each others sexual needs as well.
How often are you masturbating? Usually, the more sex (of any kind) that you have, the more you'll want. Looking for some new experiences might help to satisfy your urges, but there's also a good chance that finding other things to occupy yourself will help some too.
It is difficult to talk with friends about this stuff sometimes, so feel free to hang out here. We love talking about sex, lol!
"i want romantic love and the wild sex life at the same time."
This does exist, so keep looking until you are sure you have found the right person. I didn't marry until I was 27 because I wouldn't settle for less. After 16 years, it just keeps getting better.
"(i just wonder how you learn that a nice girl has a high sex drive before you're a year into a relationship and wondering why the sex has suddenly stopped)"
Although there can be medical reasons why a persons libido drops, more often than not, it's a combination of things. Once the newness has worn off in a relationship, it is much easier for life to interfere ... but each partner in the relationship can do things to make sure that they nurture that part of their relationship. If one partner appears to be loosing his/her libido, then both partners need to talk about what's going on. Chances are, they can both make changes that will help to relight the flame.
Every relationship continues to grow and change over time. If both people are committed to making it work, then it's much more likely to flourish in all areas.
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I don't think you should worry about a man thinking that you're "too horny". Do men even think such things (in a bad way). Maybe it's the cultural difference, but tell a Jamaican man that you're horny 24/7 and he's game lol. But on a serious note, I'm the same way. I have a really high sex drive, and as soon as I'm done, I'm ready again. My bf says I'm going to be the death of him, but he's not complaining. He calls me everything from a sex-aholic to a nympho, to his little "energizer bunny", but it's all in good fun. I guess you just have to find someone who appreciates this about you, and in your quest for that person be very honest about your desires.
In the meantime, try to take care of yourself as best you can. Maybe invest in some toys... or a cucumber (just kidding about the cucumber lol).
i'm a 28 year old guy, and postings like those here are the only things that give me hope that i didn't make a mistake by not settling down with some sweet girl with a low libido already. trust me, plenty of guys will be very happy to meet someone who is both horny AND selective. it's easy to find nice girls who don't want to have sex, and it's easy to find horny girls that sleep with everyone they meet... girls who are nice and have a high sex drive are the fantasy of the majority of men. every guy is hoping to meet someone who is only a slut for them...
(i just wonder how you learn that a nice girl has a high sex drive before you're a year into a relationship and wondering why the sex has suddenly stopped)
Edited 11/29/2007 9:30 am ET by princess_j2006
Since there are people with all different libido levels, I don't think you'll have trouble finding a guy that appreciates this side of you. In any relationship, there's never a guarantee that your libidos will stay equally matched -- as each person tends to fluctuate in that area from time to time anyway. Hopefully, when you do find the person that you think is the right guy, he really will be the right guy. If the caring and commitment is there, you both share honesty and trust, than chances are, you'll be able to satisfy each others sexual needs as well.
How often are you masturbating? Usually, the more sex (of any kind) that you have, the more you'll want. Looking for some new experiences might help to satisfy your urges, but there's also a good chance that finding other things to occupy yourself will help some too.
It is difficult to talk with friends about this stuff sometimes, so feel free to hang out here. We love talking about sex, lol!
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"I also find myself staring and looking at men's crotches and butts. I wonder if it's something in the air. Lol...I don't know."
Whether you have sex instantly at your fingertips or a man always at your disposal, this part of life may last and last ...
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"i want romantic love and the wild sex life at the same time."
This does exist, so keep looking until you are sure you have found the right person. I didn't marry until I was 27 because I wouldn't settle for less. After 16 years, it just keeps getting better.
Wanna Stuff My Stocking?
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"Maybe invest in some toys... or a cucumber (just kidding about the cucumber lol)."
Actually cucumbers, zucchini, carrots .... they're all good choices. You'll never look at the produce section the same again!
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>>>It is difficult to talk with friends about this stuff sometimes, so feel free to hang out here. We love talking about sex, lol!<<<
If I remember correctly - that was the original purpose for iVillage.
Rich, good to the last drop
Welcome to the board, epsilonsfx.
"(i just wonder how you learn that a nice girl has a high sex drive before you're a year into a relationship and wondering why the sex has suddenly stopped)"
Although there can be medical reasons why a persons libido drops, more often than not, it's a combination of things. Once the newness has worn off in a relationship, it is much easier for life to interfere ... but each partner in the relationship can do things to make sure that they nurture that part of their relationship. If one partner appears to be loosing his/her libido, then both partners need to talk about what's going on. Chances are, they can both make changes that will help to relight the flame.
Every relationship continues to grow and change over time. If both people are committed to making it work, then it's much more likely to flourish in all areas.
Wanna Stuff My Stocking?
CL-Let’s Talk Toys ~ CL-Let’s Talk About Sex
follow me to my partners in the siggy exchange:
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