Role playing

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Registered: 05-19-2004
Role playing
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Wed, 05-19-2004 - 7:58pm
Coming out of lurkdom to ask a question: My husband and I have been together for 18 years. Our sex life has always been fulfilling and exciting, but we've never role played. I feel as though I'm maybe missing something. What exactly does it do and how often is it done? Whenever I would ask my husband if he wants me to dress up and role play, he just tells me that's silly. He says that I'm so sexy, he loves to look at me, as me. Are we missing some extra-arousal tool, or is it the same arousal as would be, were there not any role playing? I wouldn't want to be missing out, although I'd probably feel silly too, but I'd still give it a whirl. How many of you role play? How often? And does it give both of you extra, extra, arousal(wouldn't want to miss that!)?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 05-23-2004 - 4:35pm
I actually meant my response for another post on the thread, so that's why it didn't quite fit your situation.

I actually think you're right. We would all love to have unconditional love from our partner but just how close you may get that ideal will differ from person to person. I don't blame you for feeling trapped by your DH's needs. Maybe with time and maturity that will change but I doubt it.

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