Routine or Spontaneous Love?
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Routine or Spontaneous Love?
| Wed, 07-04-2007 - 4:41am |
What is your preference
Better the devil you know; Positions/sex acts you are used to….
Or
Devilish delights, splendors in the dark; Positions/sex acts that surprise…..
Better the devil you know; Positions/sex acts you are used to….
Or
Devilish delights, splendors in the dark; Positions/sex acts that surprise…..


My preference really depends on my mood, and the mood of my partner. While we have a couple of positions that we really like, and they are usually incorporated frequently, we also shake things up a bit and try new things often.
I think, currently for us, we probably go with routine about 25% of the time.
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We love the surprise, unexpected, the new and try to incorporate it as much as possible.
BUT often that can take us a lot longer and require a lot more energy because when we experiment, it sometimes doesn't go exactly as planned. Part of the fun is trying. Anyway, we both noticed that we TEND to slip into the routine- "I know he/she will have great pleasure doing this" sex from Monday-Thursday because we have less time and energy but still have the desire to have sex.
We always look forward to days off because one never know what is going to happen!
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Waking someone up with a passionate kiss in an unexpected place is a delight…
I like to think out of the square when it comes to pleasure and fantasy as it always keeps things fresh and alive.
Routine; there are certain things that always remain in the repertoire…..but the added element of creativity and surprise always astonishes…
;o)