saliva instead of lubricant?

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Registered: 03-04-2007
saliva instead of lubricant?
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Mon, 06-23-2008 - 10:13pm
my friend literally spit into his hand and then fingered me so he could get inside me comfortably with the condom.
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Registered: 03-03-2008
Mon, 06-23-2008 - 11:44pm
I would
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Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 06-24-2008 - 12:16am

If you have oral sex, his saliva is in you and on you!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Tue, 06-24-2008 - 8:43am

As you already noted, you're exchanging spit with him when kissing. If you're overly concerned that a STD would be transmitted that way, then be sure to have lubricant on hand, and avoid kissing.

The thought of someone spitting grosses me out, but we use saliva as lubricant all the time. He's probably used to spitting during masturbation, but saliva can be used without it seeming so gross. Either of you can insert your fingers into the others mouth to gather the saliva and then use it to lubricate and put on a show, or saliva can be left behind after oral sex. Both of those events add to the foreplay, so they (in my opinion) are much more in tune with the moment.

A lot of the amateur porn I've seen lately involves spitting. Like I said, it grosses me out, but it appears to be something that is popular, at least among some, at this given time.

If you're prone to getting yeast infections or infections like UTIs, then you might want to avoid spit. The saliva can carry sugar and bacteria, so it can contribute to either of those problems.



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Registered: 05-04-2008
Tue, 06-24-2008 - 9:51am
I find this so so so so gross!!! I absolutely hate it, and I am totally grossed out by it.

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 06-24-2008 - 10:01am

I don't watch that much porn, but I totally agree that the "spitting" phenomenon that young men seem to be embracing is totally disgusting!

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Registered: 06-25-2008
Wed, 06-25-2008 - 2:32am
Ive come across this a few times now, when described it sounds a bit vulgar, but its not unsanitary . Its practically the same as oral sex . Besides if I met a guy that always carried around a bottle of lube, that would be a little wierd .
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Wed, 06-25-2008 - 6:28am
Welcome to the board, Erica, and thanks for joining in!


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Registered: 08-09-2007
Wed, 06-25-2008 - 9:18am
I guess I'm weird or just that damn freaky or maybe even both! Because I don't have a issue with him using his saliva to finger me is cool with me! I'm too busy enjoying it and when I'm giving one of my fav's (blowjob) I always slob him royally with my saliva so him using his saliva to pleasure me is all good! As long as he is using some kind of lubricate and as someone else mentioned, before long, his finger, tongue, hand and/or even his face will be saturated with my juices. ;) So I don't care one way or another. Just bring it!!!!



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