School girl??????
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School girl??????
| Mon, 11-01-2004 - 12:15pm |
My DH stares at 18 year olds and likes for me to wear my hair in a ponytail and pig tails. This is really bothering me and all I can think is that he is wanting a "teenager" although legal - but we are in our 30's and our daughter will be a teenager soon. Is this wrong or is it okay for him to have this "fetish" or "fantasy" and play it out with me? It is making me uncomfortable though without fully knowing what his thoughts are and he doesn't want to share "those" thoughts with me.
Help please
Help please

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I assumed that him not telling her about it was because there's nothing much to say. If I asked my DH why he likes long blonde hair - he'd say "because I do". If I pressed him for more info, he'd get mad because there is no more info. And he hates being pressed and made to analyse stuff that doesn't matter.
Unless there's a later post that I've missed - I can't begin to speculate on the O/P's husband because there's simply a lack of information from the O/P. Innocent till proven guilty.....or at least till more info is at hand.
Occaisional school girl dress ups are no big deal IMHO - but if it is actually a 'fetish' (ie; something that he can't get off without having) then I think there's much more at hand. And in that case, I agree that he should be talking about it.
BTW, my ex-husband used to like me to wear my old school uniforms on occaision - and I never thought twice about it. Perhaps it's the influence of AC/DC and The Divinyls school uniform stage wear in the 80's that makes me see school girl/boy dress-ups as something a bit fun and raunchy - but nothing more.
If he can't explain why he likes the pigtails that's no big deal either. I can't imagine that very many people, especially guys, want to sit down and have a detailed discussion about their sexual preferences and analyse the reasoning behind it. Even if they did a lot of guys would have problems putting it into words.
Even if he does have a thing for schoolgirls and his wife IS satisfying him in this area by wearing her hair in pigtails, I would think that most guys that have a thing for the schoolgirl look are going to pay attention to the real thing if it presents itself. I know that I love stockings - my partner wears them for me, but if I see a picture of a woman in stockings then you can bet your bottom dollar that I'll be interested.
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