self conscience about being on top
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self conscience about being on top
| Fri, 08-27-2004 - 11:26am |
I have always been selfconcscience about being on top. Not so much about my body but whether I am doing a good job or not. I have been seeing my BF since may and he usually seems to want me on top so I have been getting a lot more practice. My question is a lot of times he comes when I am on top and he comes pretty hard.(Like lastnight LOL) Does that mean I am doing a good job. I know I should ask him but I always feel I don't know what i am doing. LOL

You're doing it because you enjoy it, he enjoys it, and you'll both enjoy it together. If he finishes that way, great! If not, then you move on to another position where he WILL finish. Most guy like their woman on top because they like watching HER have orgasms, and that's one of the best positions for a woman to have an orgasm. There is more to "pleasure" than orgasms, and if he likes you up there, and you enjoy it, then just DO it, and don't worry about whether or not you're doing a "good job".
Believe me, if he wasn't enjoying it, he'd stop asking you to do it.