Separated sex....

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Registered: 05-20-2007
Separated sex....
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Wed, 03-14-2012 - 7:02pm

For those of you who have been separated ..... or those who have dated people who are separated....

Is it OK to have sex before the divorce is final?

Is having sex with others, whilst separated from your wife/husband still considered cheating?

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Thu, 03-15-2012 - 7:45am

Personally, I think if a couple is separated it's perfectly fine to have sex with others, while waiting for the divorce. It may even be ok to have sex with the partner that you're searating from!

But, if you are just separated trying to pull yourselves together and are working on keeping the marriage together, that's a whole different story. Then I think it would be wrong.



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Registered: 05-20-2009
Thu, 03-15-2012 - 9:59am

That depends on the couple, and why they're separated.

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Registered: 05-20-2007
Thu, 03-15-2012 - 11:27pm

Not speaking from experience, I've never dated anyone who's been separated and I've never been in that position myself, but, since a divorce can take months/years to go through, I'd be inclined to say that having sex whilst separated

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Fri, 03-16-2012 - 10:25pm

I've been involved in a couple...

From an ethical standpoint...

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Registered: 03-20-2012
Tue, 03-20-2012 - 10:22pm

I am currently separated and have had sex with someone else.