Separated sex?

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Separated sex?
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Thu, 04-21-2005 - 8:58am

Okay, this one I remember reading from another message board and just had to hear the opinions here, cause I KNOW they're here, lol.


Is it bad or okay to have sex with someone else while you're separated?

 

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Fri, 04-22-2005 - 7:06pm
And in many states now, the divorce action is 'no fault', meaning whatever one partner did or didn't do has no bearing on the granting of the divorce, property, settlement, support or custody. Adultery or any other actions are a non issue as far as the courts are concerned. It won't make things better for the betrayed spouse or harder on the cheater.


Edited 4/22/2005 7:07 pm ET ET by tally33
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Registered: 02-26-2005
Fri, 04-22-2005 - 10:46pm
Just lurking here but....
I would say no if you are trying to work it out at all!!! Me and my dh have separated before and I know it would have killed him if I would have!And I probably would not have gotten back w/him if he had. And secrets don't help anything either. And even if you are not trying to work it out, it could then possibly cause problems w/a divorce. Better not to!!! JMHO
BTW- I did have sex w/dh while separated from him and ended up pregnant again and we ended up back together and are now doing pretty awesome!

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