September Roll Call -- New Beginnings

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Registered: 03-31-2007
September Roll Call -- New Beginnings
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Sat, 09-01-2007 - 10:27am

I think September is a pretty significant month for most of us. It signifies the end of Summer (at least as far as vacations go), the changes in weather for many, and the start of school for ourselves and/or our children. I've always found it interesting how the vacation season is so nicely surrounded by two holiday weekends here -- Memorial Day and Labor Day.



While many of you pack away your white shoes for next year, think about a new beginning you would like to see in your life. Of course, on this board, we would like that to be a sexual challenge to yourself. Tell us about it, and later in the month, report back and let us know how things went!



Tell us what you would like to be called here ~



Tell us what you would like to challenge yourself with sexually ~



Remember to come back later in the month and let us know how things went! Once you fulfill your challenge, you can let us know then. If you need ideas on ways to meet your challenge, feel free to ask those here as well!





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Mon, 09-03-2007 - 10:31pm

I don't think you're having a confusing day -- I just think you want it all, lol.

Has to be the libido thing ;-)



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Tue, 09-04-2007 - 1:10pm

Call me Jason or anything as long as it is nice.

Tell us what you would like to challenge yourself with sexually---- To find myself in a loving and sexual fullfilling relationship, for me I think that means getting past some of my hang ups. I have been single now for about a year, and in my last job worked in close qtrs with a bunch of women who were men bashing all the time and kept taking it out on me and putting me down and pushing the space issue to the point I no longer feel comfortable around most women. I want to feel like me again.

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Registered: 08-16-2007
Tue, 09-04-2007 - 2:22pm
It's in two weeks. I have to get some lube though. Is vasoline ok? That's what I've been using on him a couple times. But just wondered if it gets inside me... I'll keep yas posted... :0
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Registered: 08-16-2007
Tue, 09-04-2007 - 2:25pm
The 23rd! I've been stretching myself, so's not to let on what I'm planning.... Good luck to you too... lol
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Tue, 09-04-2007 - 3:03pm

I wouldn't recommend Vaseline. Do you plan on having him wear a condom? The condom does help to protect him from getting a possible infection in his urethra as well as providing for easy clean up. If he does wear a condom, be sure to get a lube that is safe for use with latex condoms. Many will break the condom down.

Make sure you don't use a lube with a numbing agent either as you need to feel what is going on. If there is pain, it's your body's way of letting you know something is wrong. You can get many lubes at pharmacies today. Be sure to use it liberally and take things slow.

Here are a few articles on anal sex that you might also find helpful:

Adventurous Intimacy: 6 Do's and Don'ts of Anal Sex
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,b31g,00.html

I want to try anal sex
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/carnal/qas/0,,638358_602026,00.html

Second Opinions: Anal Sex
What you should know
http://health.ivillage.com/sexualhealth/0,,7558qs10,00.html



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Tue, 09-04-2007 - 5:17pm
You can call me Cubbies and as far as what I want to challenge myself sexually it is to just open up a little more and go with whatever feels good. I have gotten out of a unhappy marriage and am seeing a great guy so he is in for a wild ride! HA LOL

 

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Thu, 09-06-2007 - 5:22am
Vasaline is not good. We use Wet Platinum for anal.
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Registered: 08-16-2007
Thu, 09-06-2007 - 10:13am
Thanks Misty for the tips. Hope to look as if I "really know" what I'm doing at that time!
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Thu, 09-06-2007 - 11:21pm

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 09-10-2007 - 11:39am

So, how are we all doing on our challenges? Anyone complete theirs yet? Those of you that might be lurking, it's never too late to join in. Go ahead and post your challenge here while introducing yourself. If you're not ready for the challenge, go ahead and introduce yourself anyway.