Serious Issue and Need Help!!!
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Serious Issue and Need Help!!!
| Tue, 04-24-2007 - 7:55pm |
Ok. My friend(neighbor also) is married and has a kid.WEll he ever since they have lived by us,he has always been very weird and doesnt ever have ne thing to do with his wife.Ok well he is currently in iraq and I know someone who invited him to their friend's list on myspace and he accepted well he has messages from girls on there and obviously they stae pretty clear there is something going on bc he has single and is there for dating but he has pics of his son but no pics of mother up.Well she thinks hes being all faithful but as we on outside know he isnt.Also when he was home he would leave for hours just to say he was going to walmart but would be gone for lik 4 and 5 hours,whatever,This chick called his house and his wife answered and told her that he was cheating on her with her well his wife blew it oiff and believed him.So should I tell her and show her his page or just leave it bee for her to see for herself later in life?>Also on Valentines day he told her to be expecting flowers well she never got them and he told her his friend accidetally sent them to his wife (his friend ordered the flowers for him suppoesedly)so she called the flower co and they said they were addresed to another girl and she needed to take it up with her husband but she still thinks hes so perfect and faithful and we all know he isnt because the signs are there and she inst seeing them

You need to stay out of other people's marriages. That's between the two of them, and right or wrong, she won't believe you anyway. She'll find out on her own, or maybe she won't, but it's her life and her marriage, and outsiders should stay outside.
What she doesn't know doesn't hurt her.
I say..mind your own business...he will trip up...and mess up eventually...and get himself caught one way or the other...
...if the signs are so obvious to everyone, including the wife...then she all ready knows I'm sure but is choosing to beleive her husband until she finds out differently for herself...
why r u so involved in their business ne ways? Friends of yours?
Stay out of it!!!
as much as you are trying to help, it isnt your buiness
i know its hard watching her suffer, but there isnt much you can/should do
because at the end of the day its her life and only she can controll it
if she knows hes cheating its up to her to do something about it if she is unhappy
im sorry im not trying to sound rude or anything!!! but thats my opinion
Hi there,
On a different thought. What if she does know and is in deep denial,
Or she doesn't want to be the family that split up because of adultery
and doesn't want there children to know what's going on.
She probably has a big fear of becoming a single mom,
There are lots of reasons why she's probably staying. I bet she does know
but doesn't want to face it. It's truly up to you whether you do tell her.
Also some couples allow there spouses to see other people.
So you just never know.
Kareese
That's my 2 cents