Tell me again why you're thinking about playing games with this guy?
Personally, I think each relationship takes it's own course. I don't think there's anything to be gained by playing games. If you're not sure how you feel or where you want the relationship to go, then you have to determine how involved you want to become. To me, if I'm feeling happy where I'm at, I tend to keep things rolling until I'm not feeling happy anymore. Then I try to determine what I should do to get happy again.
hard call. YOu like him? Interested in getting to know more of him?? then I say go with the flow.
People always say dating is hard and confusing. After dating a lot before I met DH i decided that it's only confusing and hard when you're not with the right guy. When I met the right guy (DH) everything just flowed, things happened quick - it was easy, comfortable, no tricks or games.
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Tell me again why you're thinking about playing games with this guy?
Personally, I think each relationship takes it's own course. I don't think there's anything to be gained by playing games. If you're not sure how you feel or where you want the relationship to go, then you have to determine how involved you want to become. To me, if I'm feeling happy where I'm at, I tend to keep things rolling until I'm not feeling happy anymore. Then I try to determine what I should do to get happy again.
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No, the point is I DONT WANT TO PLAY GAMES, i'm sick of guys who play the whole game thing, not calling on purpose, etc.... you know?
hard call. YOu like him? Interested in getting to know more of him?? then I say go with the flow.
People always say dating is hard and confusing. After dating a lot before I met DH i decided that it's only confusing and hard when you're not with the right guy. When I met the right guy (DH) everything just flowed, things happened quick - it was easy, comfortable, no tricks or games.
I say no games. go with it!
Guy here and you have put yourself in this situation of uncertainty. I would suggest you hold out on your next date. If he gets upset or does not call
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Do what you want to do, if you have no other plans and you want to see him again then do it.