Sex

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Registered: 08-08-2006
Sex
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Tue, 11-28-2006 - 9:43pm

So my ex and I broke up in the summer, since then we get along great...We talk everyday for like three or four hours straight. We also have been having sex, agreeing that we aren't getting back together. We've spent a few weekends together...IS that weird?, spending the weekend together even though we don't want to get back together?? Also, he acts like we never broke up, he wants to always snuggle or hold hands....

Is he still emotionally attached?? What is the deal??

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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: canadianbeauty83
Tue, 11-28-2006 - 11:03pm

It sounds great - until he meets another girl that he likes.

It's probably working because you don't have any right to tell him what to do. Yeah, he'll be emotionally attached to some degree but he's also free to come and go as he pleases and he knows that and may well do just that.

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Registered: 07-26-2005
In reply to: canadianbeauty83
Wed, 11-29-2006 - 12:04am

You didn't break up. You talk every day, you have sex. That's not broken up. That's a relationship with no commitments. As Westridge said, you're both free to see anyone you want to....and more than likely, when he finds someone else he might be interested in, you'll be hurt.

It's not weird....it's a waste of time.