sex

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Registered: 05-05-2006
sex
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Sun, 07-30-2006 - 6:08pm
ok here i go again. well the sex between my boyfriend and i is great. he may have started out a virgin but is learning quickly. but now i have to ask why cant he ejaculte unless i am on top??? i either have to be on top or give him oral sex make him ejavulate. he does wonderful to things to me and makes me feel incredable. i just wish in other postions he would have an orgasim. i wonder if is the penitration factor or what exacly?? if there is anyone out there please help me.
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Registered: 04-07-2003
In reply to: ladydragon75
Sun, 07-30-2006 - 8:37pm
Hi there!! I shouldnt be reading these cuz I dont have time to give a proper response... gotta get dinner going... Trust me on this though... I am right!!! :) This is mamachelle's husband... Most guys in their teen years masturbated in bed on their back. For some... until they become more experienced.... will resort to what is comfortable and works for them. Men's bodys can be funny sometimes..... we let our brains mess with us... It will work itself out just be supportive and let nature takes its course.... Trust me!!! You might be surprised to know some guys CANT cum on their backs which sucks because I am one of those guys... As I have gotten older, I seem to not be able to finish in that position... wife doesnt mind though as she can ride me until she just cant have another orgasm then she lets me take over!!! Dont worry about it too much... let some time pass and enjoy learning what works and dont work. I honestly feel that it will happen when it happens... and probably wont take that long... Good Luck!!!!
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Registered: 05-05-2006
In reply to: ladydragon75
Sun, 07-30-2006 - 9:38pm
thanks for responding. i have been trying to be patient with nature. but it bothers mesometimes. my boyfriend is almsot 40 as for me who is 30 and hasnt had an orgasim until i took his viginity. yeah i was married but the marriage was an awfulone. sex sucked me fo me at that time. but anyays if nature happens i will let u know. thanks again. if u have anything else to share please let me know.
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Registered: 07-16-2003
In reply to: ladydragon75
Sun, 07-30-2006 - 11:52pm
I can only throw this out in left field as a guess. But in both of those positions he gets a birds-eye view as to what is going on. My guess is he needs the visual thing along with the physical.